Depressed over not being good at anything

Have you tried Jizzing out the window from the other side of the room? It gave me a tremendous sense of attchievment.

Dude, seriously though. I understand your problem. You need to start again, go back and start doing things that are easy and then build your self up. eg. Get a coloring in book and stay in the lines, build a lego project made for 8yo's, bake some fresh bread. Next thing you know you will be doing rocket science...and gettin yo dic sucked doin it.

Hey hun. I went through the same thing a few years ago. Have nearly NO talent, no sport skills or critical thinking skills, shitty job, no friends, low self-worth. Only socialized online with games like Second Life. Watching TV was my only real avid hobby.

Little did I know I was whats called "manically depressed" at the time. I snapped under stress and was hospitalized for two weeks, put on meds and evened out. Off meds 2 years later. Realized fuck I dont have friends I should change that. Invited coworkers out several times before I officially snagged them as friends. Went to college and got myself a skill. Its just one little skill, computer graphics, and Im not AMAZING at it but I do okay and I like having SOMETHING that not everyone can do.

Basically if you HATE your life, you are the only one with power to change it. But to me personally you sound quite depressed and may need a little help psychologically. Also it doesn't matter if you do WELL at hobbies, just matters if you like them! I suck at video games but I love trying, talking about them, and going to video game expos, meeting like-minded people.

You genuinely sound like a nice person (with impeccable grammar). Maybe try joining your local Lions Club. Feel good about yourself helping others and the community and hanging around some AWESOME old people.

It is normal to feel like shit about not having anything to offer the world, but it leads down a dark depressing path that needs to be turned around. Much love!

1 (800) 273-8255
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (just incase)

I know how you feel. I feel bad that I have no savant-like mastery of any skills. I feel like I should in order to compensate for being autistic since I usually feel like a burden on others. To quote Louise from Bob's Burgers, it's "like the worst kind of autism".

But even though I may not be Rainman, my family has reassured me that I do have a place and meaning in this world. Just being alive and trying my hardest to be a decent person, to help people to smile and laugh and to offer them a kind word... That's my purpose.

If life's a stage, not all of us are going to be cast as the main actors. Sometimes the people behind the scenes are the ones who really help the stage sparkle. :)

Here's a quote from Fire Emblem. Bit wierd withou context but you will get it.
"Matthew: Hello, Guy. That bump on your head getting any better?
Guy: Grr...
Matthew: You should know better than to try to sneak in when I’m sleeping. You’re really easy to read, you know that?
Guy: I-I won’t lose next time!
Matthew: Hey...Guy. Back in Sacae, you were saying you want to become the strongest knight of all. Is that your dream.. or your goal?
Guy: Huh?
Matthew: If it’s a dream, then be done with it. There are plenty of dreamers with swords. Plenty stronger than you, plenty with more talent... To be the strongest, you have to beat them all.
Guy: I-I know that!
Matthew: What will you do when you hit your wall? That one opponent you’ll never be able to beat?
Guy: ...
Matthew: When you hit that wall that you just can’t get over... That’s when you’ll realize. You’re not special. You’re a bit player, one of the masses.
Guy: ...
Matthew: Most people given up then. They realize they’re not young anymore, they don’t have talent. They think up some excuse why they don’t have to try. That’s how they go on with their lives.
Guy: B-But I’m different! I won’t end up like them! As long as I live, I’ll keep fighting!
Matthew: I see... Then, best of luck, Guy. I’m rooting for you.
Guy: Eh...?
Matthew: You’re to become the best knight in Sacae, right? Then you’d best beat me one of these days. And you’ll have to get stronger to do that.
Guy: Of course! I will!"

Yeah, I fuck up things a lot and when I do I end up feeling less than others. There's some things I'm bad at, many things I'm mediocre at, and nothing I'm good at. Like you, I know I'm a piece of shit because I haven't had much success in life so far, but at the same time I know I have the potential to be more. That's what keeps me motivated, and that's why you don't give up. Although, I'll admit it's hard to STAY motivated when negative thoughts creep into your head, but you just gotta keep reminding yourself of your potential.

I used to be afraid of experiences and failure, but I got sick of that. Fuck it! Embrace it! Failure isn't always a bad thing. I might fuck up a lot, but rarely do I make the same exact mistake twice. The more experiences you have, the more you'll learn, and the better you understand things. As long as you keep trying, eventually, it only makes sense you'll figure something out.

You only need minimal skillset to be able to suck the cock. Just ask crusades, he is the champion knob gobbler

Dude. Practice masturbation. It is life's most important skill.

I have struggled with this in the past. The truth is that as long as you keep comparing yourself to others, insecurity will always be a part of your life. Be competitive if you wish but focus on improving yourself not seeing how you can beat others. I think most people have to deal with the fact that we are mostly insignificant as individuals and cannot possibly make a big impact on the world. Most people have to be content with meddling in mediocrity, with the full knowledge that all their personal efforts and conflicts will not matter to the person next to you, and that eventually no one will actually care about you, except for your family and loved ones. This is just the reality. We can either dwell on it and face an existential crisis and become depressed, or we can choose to create our own happiness in the world. The choice is ours.

git gud.

You have to get up and shake those negative feelings off yourself. Waaaay more easier said than done, trust me I know. But you have to find some type of motivation wether it be in a person or an activity or even helping people. Try and find a positive enviornment that brings you joy.