Denial of being liked

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I can't see why people like me, I'm rude, blunt, careless, absentminded, and I act silly/dumb. And supposedly people still manage to have a crush on me. I try to act undesirable too but it's no use. I'm unflirty too so it's not like I'm helping either.

Whenever someone lets me know they like me, I change the subject on it and try to make them not like me.

I mean I do like to be liked, only in a friendly manner but if its more than that then I can't stand it.

Is it normal for me to act this way?

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Based on 64 votes (38 yes)
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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    They might actually just pretend to like you for personal gain. Ever thought about that? maybe they got something to gain out of it. What's in it for them? what's in it for me?
    That's the first question I ask myself whenever somebody acts all friendly and shit. You should start doing the same and leave the like like crap to whoever is naive enough to believe in it.

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  • PrincessLollipop
    12 years ago

    Girls love a challenge & many girls would love a bad boy to turn good just for them! : )

    It's like Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribbean. He's so immature & silly but still manages to be a cutie!...even dressed in a pirate suit!! LOL :)

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal to be like this. Frankly, it sounds like you're a separatist, not sure if that's the right word. Which means that you want to make sure that people don't like you. Kind of like Kurt Cobain. However, I'm pretty sure that there's a part of you that likes being admired. I think that this behavior is common. Furthermore I think that you should learn to accept the fact that maybe you're aren't as undesirable as you want to seem.

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