Dealing with the wife at the doctor

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How do i deal with my wife going to the gynocolegist....i seem to be extremly protective and it depresses me.?
i am very protective...to the point of trading my life for hers.....but i know she should go to the doctor and she does...but it make me very depressed and feel like i am letting something bad happen to her....although i know there is nothing bad happening....now we find out she has cyctic overies which mean many more visits...and we are thinking pf kids SOON. so i need to figure out how to deal with this NOW.

look people i know how childish this sounds and she does for the record make her yearly appoinments and she does see a lady doctor. and this is not a joke i have always felt this way....i know it could be smothering... and i do my best to not let it show to keep her from noticing.

please be serious with your comments...i dont need the insulting remarks... please.

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  • BrightEyes
    14 years ago

    Nothing bad is going to happen to her. And on the off chance that it does, you two can sue. It's all right to be protective but your wife needs to see a doctor, especially if she has cysts and you two are going to have children. This is something you really have to get over.

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  • blackout333
    14 years ago

    I kinda see where you're coming from, but these are doctors- they deal with this everday. It's not Ike your wife has something this docs never seen and steal her from you... it'll be alright.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Well your behaviour is so ridiculous and over the top what do you expect? Praise?

    Rather than focusing on your wife, go to a counsellor about your need to control and your depression. You are not being protective. You are being an ass.

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  • BlueAlice
    10 years ago

    You need help! Preventing someone close to you from accessing essential medical treatment and examination IS A FORM OF ABUSE, whatever your mental health status!

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  • Bigbrother92
    13 years ago

    I'd say I feel the same as you. I'm very protective and sometimes insecure about things. Go to a shrink and tell him how you feel. Maybe his evaluation can help you grownout of
    This. I'd love to hear hownyou got over it.

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