Dating a turkish guy

I m from a little country in the adriatic sea and i m dating a turkish guy .
Actually i fell in love and i started to change in better, it started because of him but now i started to belive really belive.
And anyway i feel wonderfull and protected next to him and bla bla but he started to be little controling in a sence *U have to listen to me allways,not discuse,be quiet,and offcours obey to me*
And i must admite every time i listened he was right.So i m asking for advice is it normal for good muslim women to behave like that with his men(cause i would like to become one)or something alse...?
Thanks for helping :)

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  • Tenshhi

    just search about which city he has born and lives,also what is his background.and before marry try to learn about his family then be sure about what he wants and what kind of future and life u dream.then decision is urs.
    if u ask about Turkish guys i can say u that there are so many couples are so happy and there are so many Turkish guys are open minded and educated well.so it is ur luck to find a good one or worst one.cos u know Turkey population is around 75 million no one can guarantee u about any guy or lady:)
    and even my ex gf was from England and she hates British guys cos almost all her bfs are beat her.so no one can generalize or blame one nation for being aggressive.COS IT DEPENDS ON INDIVIDUAL NOT THE NATION.

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  • TheConsciousElectron

    Turkish men are sexy and respectful.

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    • ELTURCO

      Yes I am :))

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  • BfingIToucher

    You sound like you are contradicting yourself. He seems like he is being very clear: He expects to control you, and for you to be passive and submissive, correct? Is that what you want? I would think long and hard about it before committing further to this guy. Culture is indeed an important consideration. As a woman, I would find this relationship to be suffocating and infuriating.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    I will take this time to mention Vlad Dracula and for anyone who knows the history I tip my hat to you.

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  • perkynipps

    You are your own individual self, you dont need to be controlled, get out now before it turns nasty

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  • pain123

    I'm American and just married a Turkish man and the controlling I think ur talking about is that he wants to know where u r and basically not to be alone with another guy I think that's kind of normal in any relationship. I love my husband and if u love ur bf then it's really not that hard to do.

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  • hokisgurl

    Um u are setting your self up for disaster middle eastern men don't respect women they view them as property I dated a Saudi guy and Turkish guys they really can be controlling and u need to Have red flag indicators personally id run far away from this relationship If your from Albania stay in Albania or a country that women have rights I'd never willingly go with a guy to his native land be careful U have ure agency to make ure own choices but if I were u I would dodge this bullet this guy smells like trouble

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    • ELTURCO

      What a prejudiced brain u have. Dazzling..
      And you are pretty ignorent too lady..

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    • -WhySoSerious-

      I'm a Saudi guy, and I know exactly what you mean..

      What you were describing, is someone who doesn't represent Saudi Arabians.,,

      I lived in an environment where my sister and mom are the princess and queen of the house.

      So, please don't think just because one Saudi guy was controlling, that all Saudis are.

      umm, eventhough I know it's there, and I know many many Saudi men who are like that, it doesn't mean it's part of what we are raised to be.

      many thanks,

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  • Eleanorloveexx

    It's good .he cares about you honeyy :)

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  • Julzii94

    The very religious Turkish men, are very controlling over their partners. Because the Turkish women do everything they ask, they believe us English and other countries, will do also. That's not the case, yes you may be in love and may be in-separable. But go for a Turkish man whom isn't so committed to their religion. They're ten times nicer and respect and love their partners with everything. I am however dating a Turkish man, he isn't very committed to his religion, so he doesn't control me, hit me, take my money, nothing. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He works his ass off for me and he does everything for me. They aren't all bad, like a lot of people say. They're all very nice, but a lot of them behind closed doors can be very mean and disrespectful. I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope it goes right for you! everyone deserves the best! :)

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  • ELTURCO

    Good luck girl, just warn him neatly when he comes over you 2 much or he gets some control freak.

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  • Tenshhi

    TheConsciousElectron: by the way wish u good luck and happpiness with ur Turkish bf:)

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  • Tenshhi

    thank u...

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  • thebuddah

    You're taking advice from someone named pain? Not all Turkish men are controlling so go find one that isn't. and the only reason you really believe in all his mumbo jumbo is because you love him. But you're gonna regret it later on in life when u get married have kids and it will be more hard to get out of. you already fell into his trap sweetie

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  • meryem77

    finally some support and understanding,and yes i agree on it :).
    thank u

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  • meryem77

    Yes i am and that no one can take and he knows that.And even i agree on that i m still smart enough to make my goal and let him think its his.
    I m Balkan girl:)

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