Damn i think i made someone delete their post. iin?
I feel really bad about this. Perhaps I was a little harsh. The subject they wrote about was a sensitive one, probably the most sensitive one for this site and for real life (parenting) and I understand that. That's probably why the OP became so defensive. I just want to say I'm sorry and please don't take me or anyone else here too seriously. I think it would be good for people to ask more questions as parents because no one wants to admit even here that they may be doing something wrong as a parent. I want to break the perfect parent stigma and be able to talk about my problems with being a parent freely without worrying about being judged. So much is expected of parents and it's easy to think less of someone who does certain things just because they are raising a child. I don't think it should be this way. It's oppressive.
I'm sorry you felt you had to delete your post. There is nothing wrong with the question you asked. It just went that way because no one had an answer for you.
Is it normal to feel this way after a post gone wrong is deleted?