Dad dances with own son but not step son at wedding

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So I recently went to this friend's wedding. She has two kids, both boys. One of them is around 4-5 from her previous husband, and one who is a few months to a year with her now husband. During the after party after the couple had their first dance, I noticed my friend dancing with both of her kids, but her husband only danced with his own kid. He didn't even try to pick up the other kid or attempt to dance with him. I hope it's really nothing, but I can't help but be a little weirded out. Im not gonna throw a bitch fit because he didn't dance with both his sons, but I just want to know if I'm over thinking it. Ive spent a few days with the couple and noticed a sort of prejudice coming from the husband towards his stepson. For example the day that i was there, when he came from work his stepson wanted to play with him and be picked up but instead of doing that he said not now. He then went to his bedroom where his son shares the room with them and picked him up and kissed him and bought him outside. I don't know if it's done subconsciously or he does it willingly because he doesn't really care about taking care of another kid that's not his, but I just think that's weird. What do you guys think?

There is a prejudice against his stepson 12
It's really weird but it could just be nothing 7
No you're over thinking 3
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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    1. Your information about the kids ages is incredibly vague which makes you sound like you're making shit up. A few months to a year? You seriously aren't able to tell the difference between a young infant and one almost old enough to walk?

    2. You list two incidences with fuck all context.

    3. You'd be better off discussing this with people who actually know the family, not strangers on the internet who have never seen any interactions between this guy and his kids.

    4. You yourself have only spent "a couple" of days with them and you think you're capable of assessing their whole family situation? You sound almost as under qualified as us to assess this situation.

    5. If you were indeed correct, what exactly could you do about it?

    Idiot.

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  • HectorKA
    7 years ago

    If I was the step son, I would be glad that I didn't have to dance with my step dad as a kid, its so disgusting and gay. I rather have a neglecting dad than a pervy gay dad. I feel sorry for the biological son for having to go through this gay pedophilia molestation by that filthy perverted man, disgusting!

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Even if you're right, you can't do anything about it.

    Have you asked your friend what she thinks?

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    • weirdgirl26
      7 years ago

      I don't want to make waves. She's finally found a decent man and I don't wanna bring it up and ruin things for her.

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  • mypenisinyourmouth
    7 years ago

    What does this even have to do with you?

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