Crush's behaviour sudden change, iin?

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Hey IIN,
So me and this girl, who is 1 year younger than me, went out to do something last week. Since then, she started to act a bit distant to me, suddenly I have to start all text conversations, and she isn't really trying to maintain the conversation too, before we did something together this was not the case. What's her problem suddenly? We had fun together last week so why the sudden change of behavior? Can't really keep my mind off her so it's bugging me..

is it normal for her to act like this?

ps. I think she knows that I like her, but I'm not sure if she likes me back. inb4 just ask, I wanna ask her in person so I would have to meet up with her first.

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  • st2013de
    10 years ago

    You've done something wrong to hurt her feelings and you haven't been able to recognise it.

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    • WeSeeNoChanges
      10 years ago

      That's absolutely not true. I would never hurt her in any way. Please don't say stuff that you can't back up with with the information that I've given, I want you guys to help me out so if I've hurt her with something that I've said and I wasn't sure if I actually hurt her, I would mention that.

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      • st2013de
        10 years ago

        I'm not saying you done something terrible. I'm a girl and I know girls do not think rationally. Most of the time, the only reason I get upset with my boyfriend is because he has said something or done something that has offended me, even in a slight way, and he hasn't been able to recognise it because he thinks he's done nothing wrong. Look at how quickly you jumped at my response in a defensive way. Maybe you're too sensitive for her.

        P.S. I was using the information you gave. You asked "What's her problem suddenly?" and I'm giving you the first reason that came to mind. If you don't want responses, then don't post on here.

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        • WeSeeNoChanges
          10 years ago

          Yea maybe I am, but anyways that's just my personality hahah, I tend to get defensive if someone "accuses" me of something that I haven't done, sorry about that. And yea you've used my question, not the information. I also never said that I don't want responses, the more the better!

          Thanks for commenting by the way.

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  • Agirlsbestfriend.
    10 years ago

    She's not ready for this jelly.

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    • WeSeeNoChanges
      10 years ago

      What do you mean with jelly? Do you mean that she's not ready for relationships?

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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago

    She might not be interested in anything more than just friends. If I don't share the same feelings for someone, I don't really keep in touch with them.

    Is this your first relationship experience?

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    • WeSeeNoChanges
      10 years ago

      Second one, but this one is far different than the first one, not sure how that adds up anything. This is the first time that I felt something for someone this much. And she used to keep in touch with me all the time, just.. suddenly now.. nothing.

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      • Fall_leaves
        10 years ago

        And this isn't a rebound right? Just asking because I know after I got out of my relationship, I started seeing someone a month after and I felt like you described, even though I never felt that in my relationship..

        What do you think is different in this about this one? Since this is only your second experience don't let it get you down.

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        • WeSeeNoChanges
          10 years ago

          Well, the first one was only about the looks that got me going. This one's a looker too for sure, but whats different is that she can make me feel great and I feel really happy when being with her. A warm, exciting, happy feeling; something that Ive never felt before.

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          • Fall_leaves
            10 years ago

            Awh, that's really sweet. Do you have any classes with her? You could just ask her then and see if she would like to hangout again.

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            • WeSeeNoChanges
              10 years ago

              No I don't have any classes with her, she's one class lower than me, I can only talk to her in-between classes and then we see eachother like.. 2 seconds, we've talked last week (in person) about us almost not talking on school, and we agreed that it's just too awkward and that we want to take our time when talking to eachother. Anyways I've mentioned it two times over text, to hangout, either she was busy or it wasn't the right time for it.. I don't want to sound needy by constantly asking her to hangout and besides, it doesn't always has to come from me youknow?

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