Crush on her for 9 years

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9 years ago, when i was studying on middle-school i had a crush.but i didnt told her about my love[crush if u prefer], now, i still love her. but i still think she will reject me, even when im on middle school she never had intrest on me / what i talk, i still watch her dp / posts and smile like “i still love you man🥰”. now we are soo far than in the past, changed my location, but i still cant find someone better than her for me.

but, my mind still says:
whoever you're gonna find 'maybe she will be better' but she wont be her...

im trying every day to taught me that she wont be yours[mine], but next day/after few minutes again i look at her pictures

i kind of feel like alcoholic/drug addict when i look @ her / her pictures i feel like everything is glitching, but its still enjoyable!...

is it normal / do u ever felt this

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    You need to quit looking and forget bout her

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  • Sanara
    2 years ago

    Don't stalk her if she doesn't want to. Maybe this is just something you will have to live with

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  • SwickDinging
    2 years ago

    This isn't normal.

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    Even if she notices you, she won't notice you now.

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    Crushes are normal, but not for 9 years. If she’s not interested, you need to move on.

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  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    Sounds extremely co dependent. Theres such thing as codependents anonymous! :)

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    • RoseIsabella
      2 years ago

      CoDA, and ACOA are some really good programs!

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    Why don't you just send her a message saying that you have had a crush on her since middle school... and would she consider being your friend if she is not otherwise engaged with someone else.

    I do not believe that she will be offended, and will likely thank you for your honest and think its cute in its own way (even if its no longer appropriate now).

    Even if she says not to a romantic relationship... she might still be your friend, and may be able to match you up with someone else.

    You have nothing to loose. It also frees you to look for another if she rejects you.

    My advice: Go for it! People who take chances get ahead faster in life...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      thanks for the advice dude

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    I think this whole mess is too much to simply be a crush. A crush is not as all encompassing, and obsessive as what you've described. I'm going to link you to a video with lyrics that better describe what a crush is.

    https://youtu.be/EIhSnaqou0I

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      lyrics is great that just give me a different viewpoint to look @ this sinerio

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        Good, I'm glad you like it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Forget about it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      I'm trying to forget her for past 4 years

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        Well, I'm glad that you are at least trying to forget about this chick from when you were in middle school. I think that what you're describing here is more of an obsession, than simply a crush. If you can't move on from this on your own I think it could be very helpful for you to seek professional help.

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