Crossdressers confused sexuality

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So I want to know if there is anyone else out there like me. I am a guy who loves to crossdress as a girl. I love feeling all feminine and pretty. I have always been sexually and emotionally attracted to girls but haven't had to many relationships. I am 19 by the way. Recently though I have wanted to be treated as a girl by a guy while crossdressed. I want to experience sex with them and I can even imagine myself in a relationship with one. I could not picture a long term relationship with a guy like I could with a girl. I love crossdressing but I wouldn't want to go full time and I would only want to be with a guy while dressed like a girl. So in summary I know im emotionally and physically attracted to girls. When it comes to guys im confused....I want to try being with one...and I think its mainly an attraction to feeling feminine by being with a guy...I want to feel the emotion of pleasing a guy..help please!

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  • zenji
    10 years ago

    You sincerely wonder if there's others like you in this sort of scenario? Really?

    its difficult to have a sense of objectivity over non average behavior. But you're absolutely ok, pro social, not dangerous to anyone, i really don't see the issue here, its more like you're in the middle of figuring out or experimenting with your sexual comfort zone, and what your sexuality entails. There are men who are happy to help you figure this out, of course. So, dress up, and find a date, see how it fits in your sexual landscape.

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      Not saying we are not free to dress and act how we want but some might argue is the OP does not first alert someone he is seeing that he is in fact a man its wrong. Since if a man wants to sleep with him believing he is female and are straight to later figure out it was just a man pretending they are probobly going to be very angry to learn "Oh dear lord they have a wang"!

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    i think it's normal. i think you are bisexual and like girls and guys. but want to be a man with a girl. and a lady with a guy. gender has become pretty optional in this world. despite what parts you have, i say go out and go for it!!

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago

    In some of my past replies, I tell about buddy and I getting out of military. We partying one night with drinks and party favors, I finally got the nerve to tell him straight out "I want to feel your cock in my mouth" and so we went to my then gfs dresser and found items of her lingerie we each wanted to wear and so we went back to living room changed and got busy. I'm not at all attracted to guys, but I sure did enjoy sucking his cock. That was part of what I was confused about for a long time. I can be OK liking to suck his cock, and not want to date guys, cuz I don't want to date guys, I don't want to make out with, cuddle with or walk on the beach holding hands with another guy. But give it a couple more years, things will clear up to you. And someday you won't worry so much about the confusion or what others say think or do

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  • Wuggums47
    10 years ago

    I think you are probably bisexual but not biromantic. I would be fine with dating a crossdresser, but I wouldn't want to be with someone who only wants me for sex. Fortunately for you, this is not the prevailing opinion, if you go on craigslist and offer to dress up like a girl and have sex, I'm sure plenty of people would take you up on that offer.

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    • JuliaCD
      10 years ago

      I would want to be in a relationship with a guy though. Just don't think id want a long term one.

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  • linchpin
    10 years ago

    Just be yourself. The rest will work itself out.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    This one is difficult to answer I think currently you are very confused about your sexuality. I will also say that I believe it is wrong to lead someone on if you do not want a real relationship with them. I believe if you pursue a relationship with a man you should notify them if they don't figure it out first that you are in fact male. Since if you pretend and when they get you to the bedroom realize you are male it may really fuck with that persons head. I also believe you should alert them that its nothing but a fling and you see no real future with them. Not very kind to toy with peoples heads after all. Gay or straight it still hurts to be fucked with so remember that.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Sucking cocks is so good for you. Protein shake!!!

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