Cousin attraction

This is so strange.. I know.. but ever since I was 16, I've been attracted to my older cousin. And I thought it was just me at first and tried to ignore it but it kept on continuing. And soon, I noticed he showed the same way.. he would touch my back, talk to me differently and things like that.. I thought it was just in my head now and well I got my first 'real serious' boyfriend and he was a little protective and I thought it was being a older guy cousin sort of protectivness but it wasn't.. we were alone at my graduation party and he asked me if I was happy with my boyfriend and we were the only ones who weren't drunk at the time, I said yeah and he nodded and didn't say anything for a long time. He grabbed my hand and told me he loves me.. weird? I felt the same way about him and said I love you too and we kissed.. and kissed.. and kissed.. nobody was there because we were way outside where nobody could see us (it was night) and from then on, we see each other secretly and talk and talk like we're together and kiss a little but rarely.. weird???

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  • Cousins Rock!

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  • Chonga

    My cousins hot and we catch up for regular bonking sessions! Go for it sister.

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  • wankingwayne

    im in love with my cousin.
    she is young & beautifull
    very good looking with a fantastic body
    i say good luck to you both

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  • FreakyKing2

    My cousin has that fat ass, I wanna put it right in her butt

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  • sparrowfeed

    family members often have a lot in common because they're related, and so its very easy to become attracted to a family member.

    i wouldn't feel bad about it or anything, but i'd definitely keep it under wraps.

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  • sek_c_b1tch

    This is normal, but don't feel too bad about it. Many people feel the same way. However I would suggest that you do try and find someone else, and suggest the same to him, as your lives will become so much easier.

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  • mochi81

    I think it's normal as long as you won't bring your relationship to the real step *i mean marriage*. If you feel like it's gonna be serious with him, You have to alert yourself and stop as soon as possible. because the possibility of both of you being together is tiny. besides, i don't think your family would support you. be realistic, dear. :)

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  • Diamondskorp

    Wish I could fuck my cousin we made out when we were little and we only live an hour away :(

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  • GirlsNeedMe

    Been hot for my cousin for years. Finally at age 19 (and me 28), we were left alone with the liquor, we made out,,clothes coming off, and she said she wante me in her NOW!! But I insisted I've wanted to go down on her for years, 4 years or so I guess, when I mentioned this she said, u mean u were getting a hard in for me at 15? All the time I said, I used to hand check u I. Ball cousin, u didn't notice but all I wanted was that bubble butt bouncing off my big erection. Up next I want her dental floss thong buried in my butt while she slips on her huge pink strap on and brings me to tears with her power and size

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  • bitushcoosh

    One of my younger cousins always touches me, but not sexually, just always close. she wants to be alone, scared me. do i die?

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  • Chibi_Ranger

    I've had that when I was fifteen. It's been half a decade since. How I dealt with it? Ignore the hormonal urges. More often than not, infatuations dissipitate, crushes lose their magic and we move on.

    The smile, the charm, the attractiveness. It'll always remain there. Keep the feeling controlled and have it filed under Admiration. Hey, my eyes do like seeing cute guys, can't help it! But always keep in mind that family events will be so awkward when you two turn from flames to dust.

    You're young and you've got time. Take it easy, girl.

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  • I would support you...but then I think about kissing my cousin and I nearly throw up

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  • 1842

    i dont go for it & then confess & clear yur head. think hard if u still feel that way do it. i might jus be a phaze

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  • Mr_Don123

    i think its not wrong if u like him but make that clear beacuse u cant have a "serious" bf and be wit ur cuz thats unfair to ur bf so leave him stay wit ur cuz but i think ur family wud reject u maybe bec a cuz is ur mom or dad siser/brother child so its very weird and might fuk ur family up so i advice u to stop...or keep it very secret

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  • Gfrigo

    Fuckin gross...

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  • Galaxy500

    Hell to the no this is NOT normal! Cousins mean "off limits". Dumbass.

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  • lazykid

    For those people who say that there is nothing wrong with it are just being blind possibly because they seek to justify their own feelings in this matter.
    THE SIMPLE ISSUE IS THIS: YOU ARE RELATED. THERE ARE 7 BILLION PEOPLE IN THE WORLD, SO DO YOURSELF, HIM AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY A FAVOR AND THINK STRAIGHT FFS. Cousin relationships only ever lead to trouble, other family members will never see you in the same way ever again and neither will anyone else in society, that is society today whether you like it or not. Thats my opinion whether you like it or not is your choice. I just pray you have a bit of wisdom to not let lust confuse you for actual love.

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  • The weirdness is that your relationship has crossed a line. He's a cousin, a part of your family - not a boyfriend or lover - and so this is wrong, as is the secretiveness.

    So step back, shake your head - and respect yourself about what you know is not right. Think of your cousin as a cousin, a family member - and nothing other than that.

    And while you may have normal loving feelings for your cousin, and even admire him as a young attractive man, I think he is being a bit more manipulative.

    Make things real clear to him about who the two of you are to each other - and that, no, you are not going to have a secret affair with him.

    Demand that he respect you as a family member and let him know on no uncertain terms that if he crosses the line between family love and friendship and anything inappropriate that YOU WILL TELL.

    Then put it behind you as one of those slip-ups in life that you have corrected & dealt with by nipping in the bud.

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  • Synopsis

    I think this guy is a bit confused. He is your cousin. Please make that clear to him. Your feelings are normal. Unfortunately in today's society, this isn't a good thing to keep up. You need to stop, no matter how you feel. I'm sorry because this can only lead to more confusion.

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    • weepingwillow

      dude! idk what the f*ck is going on in that head of yours, but that is some sick twisted sh*t right there. i feel bad for you because not only is it nasty, but its illegal!

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      • HarshbutTrue

        ok do us a favor and SHUT THE F*CK UP, how the f*ck is it illegal? and by the way, cousins have about as much chance of getting a birth defected child as an unrelated couple, my point, cousins are BIOLOGICALLY safe from incest, but since SOCIETY says its wrong. you just happen to be one of the douchebags that has an extremely closed mind.

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        • blades123

          i agree there is nothing wrong with it at all so those guys should just shut up

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