Could you be with someone who was intersex

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So I was born intersex, I'm 22 now, and either have people wanting to fetishize the whole thing and check the "herm" box off their fucked-it bucket list, get completely turned off when they find out, or are hyper-liberals who think being with me is their "mission".

I'm a chemical, hormonal, and chromosomal, male. I grow facial and body hair in male patterns, have broad shoulders, cut jaw, masculine muscular build, 6 foot 7 inches tall, no breast tissue.
I have female exterior genitalia, no ovaries, no womb, had my uterus removed at 12 and closed off at the cervix.

I don't have sex, obviously, so my sexlife has basically been me eating pussy for a couple years. I understand a lot of women not being into the idea of a relationship with me due to me being all over the place anatomy-wise, and the fact I can't fuck them so I haven't really had a girlfriend outside of high school.

How do you feel about it?

I wouldn't date someone intersex	8
I would date someone intersex	3
I would date someone intersex if they had the genitalia I was attracted to	1
I would date someone intersex even if they couldn't have sex	4
Other (explain)	1

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SpookyPancake

6 years ago

Look for bi/pansexuals. Especially the latter ones. Asexuals, if you are desperate, won't mind lack of sex.
Really, just look in the LGBT community, especially the trans and/or intersex one. Lots of people open-minded about anatomy.
There are ways to have sex if you are tired of eating pussy and don't wanna use yours. Feeling up each other (or only your partner), using a strap-on, roleplaying...
From your word use I assume you identify as male. If yes, look up meiodoplasty and/or phalloplasty as surgery options.

Would I date an intersex person? Yeah. I probably would date someone like you, if not for a fact that you want to be the fucking one (what can I say, I'm a dominant top). Also, sex is not everything, personality plays a big part.

Just so you know, there are people who won't see you as a freak or a fetish.

Stay strong.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Thanks for that dude, really means a lot to get some reassurance every now and then.
  
  I'm uber uncomfortable using my cunt for anything, just now getting the confidence to make light of the whole situation and make jokes. I haven't tried but I'm pretty certain it would be near impossible to get a straight girl to do anything with me other than me doing the work on her body, so I'll try to get involved in the LGBwhatever group.
  
  Tried sex with a guy once, really turned off by it being a dude on the other end, and just pissy and prudish about how emasculating it all was. Felt amazing nonetheless. Had a girl go down on me once, really great. I just have to get over the fact this is what I'm stuck with and I gotta roll with what I've got.
  
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SpookyPancake

6 years ago

Lol I think by "mental issues, gender issues, sketchy history" you are thinking about trans people. Intersex people are born this way with mixed stuff.

But yeah, you are free to have preferences.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Yeah, I usually think of it as a deformity or mutation more than anything else, guess that sound even less appealing though lol
  
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LauraInter

6 years ago

MAybe this helps:
https://brujulaintersexual.wordpress.com/2017/01/16/my-life-as-an-intersex-person-7-sisters-7-brothers-and-i-by-mar-is/

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Faceless

6 years ago

so you dont have a dick or do? whats the situation in your pants?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  I have a vagina, but no other female organs. If you tested my blood it shows male, my DNA is male. Just fucked up in the groin anatomy.
  
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  - Faceless
    
    6 years ago
    
    like buck angel?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      Ugh... yeah, sure, like Buck Angel.
      
      But he's trans. He had to do work to go from she to sorta-he. I never had to go through transition, or do testosterone therapy, or get surgery on my chest.
      
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Cuntsiclestick

6 years ago

I'd date someone who's intersex. I'm bi, so genitals aren't a problem for me. Though I prefer submissive partners who don't worry about something being "too girly" or "too manly" for them.

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Anonymous Post Author

6 years ago

Why not?

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BlackCatsAreAwesome

6 years ago

No

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- BlackCatsAreAwesome
  
  6 years ago
  
  I do like real pussy too much. I do like the girl's genitals and lick them and stuff.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Why not?
  
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nosklafiduEKIK

6 years ago

Nope.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Why not?
  
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anonymousopinions

6 years ago

How attractive, what personality, and how healthy (speaking broadly) someone is plays a big role.

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