Confused love

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I fell in love with my male
Therapist about 8 months ago. I'm a female
And I've never had feelings for
A guy before. I'm gay and this is really confusing for me. Please help.

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  • musicbox123
    13 years ago

    this is normal! if he's becoming involved with your personal life, then you develope a feeling of closeness to him. this doesn't mean that all of a sudden you're heterosexual, but I could simply mean that you TRUST him, and this feeling of closeness and appreciation for his help may feel similar to a crush!

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  • kperkins897
    14 years ago

    I thought I was. Don't call me a bitch. Not cool.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    I think its just because you feel so comfortable with that person. :D Its normal!

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  • ruralfrights
    14 years ago

    If you only knew how normal this is. I think the term is transference and it's technically not sexual. It's easier to focus on your therapist in a fantasy, even a crush, because it diverts you from your issues. Tell him what your doing and why. If he's any kind of therapist, he will know exactly what this is about

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  • imjustme
    14 years ago

    haha..yea its so normal if your a female to like a guy

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  • qb80
    14 years ago

    That means your a normal female

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  • abbypi28476
    14 years ago

    You bitch!don't be saying that ur gay

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