Confused depression?

When my dad died, nothing has been the same. Now, i feel like he was the only one who really cared. Ever since then, my world has been turned upside down. Everything is slowly breaking. My heart feels like a knife went through it and left a huge scar. My emotions are now even more sensitive that i can feel what other peoples emotions are... Am i depressed? Or am i just confused from the sudden shock of sadness? Can i ever find the right aanswers to satisfy me...

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  • MHC20

    Thanks people! Listen, all of you have helped me, and i've gotten over it. Whenever i think of him, i think he is happy where ever he is now. Yea, sure i still remember him and love him, but ive let him go. Ive felt powerful ever since i let him go and not bring me down. Btw, i apriciate all of your help guys!

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  • CountessCoolout

    Of course you're depressed, everybody is. But it sounds like what you're looking for is Closure. You'll probably never completely get over him being gone and you aren't really supposed to. Try writing him a letter at times when you're feeling more down and see if you feel a little better after.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    It's part of becoming what a man is, experiencing loss, what you need to now is eat it and turn it into something productive such as a dedication to something that would make him proud of you

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  • 4w04se

    Hi there, I understand what you're goin through and believe it or not it's up to you to feel sad for years or months.. I know you feel like it's the end of the world.. But, think of it as a test from God.. and you know, when someone I love dies.. I just try to do everything good so I can see them in heaven. It just makes me patient somehow.. And don't ever feel that noone cares about you.. Your family and friends certainly do But, the little things they do unconsciously makes you feel that way, cause you're very sensitive at the moment, which is totally normal. Well, take a look here even strangers care about you :) So, don't worry, It's a phase and hopefully you'll pass through it.. Be strong cause life still holds the best for you.. and may your father's soul rest in peace.. I will pray for him.

    -Peace out-

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  • EndStreet

    if it still helps , up to no good iz right , people let go and move on but the dnt completely forget .. Get involved with frendz or family , discover new ways to apprecaite life and the small things it offerz us =)
    I hope that helps
    Godd luckz ^^

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  • uptonogood

    I know you are going though hard times but just be strong..get yourself involved into various things such as...volunteering,yoga something that you love doing..dont think too much because you will be stressed..Everything will be ok just give it time and be strong..Everything happens for a reason!! Good luck!

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    • MHC20

      Thanks there uptonogood. Hey! For someone with "no good" in the name, you sure seem good to me! Thanks a bunch buddy.

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