Confused about sexuality

Ok dude, I don't know how harsh the break up was with you and your ex or what caused it but after that long it's not surprising you getting a little pissed off at the gender as a hole. Now you could be

I turned myself Bisexual after a bad breakup with my girlfriend. It was a therapeutic decision and had therapeutic results. I no longer had to believe that a mere woman was God's gift to man as so many believe. And, I found, having sex with another guy can be -- and many times is -- a whole lot more intense than with a woman. If you're trying to decide to take the next step, I'd encourage it. You'll find that once you've had another guy's dick in your mouth, you'll crave it from then on. And it's Soooooo Goooood!!!!

(sorry phone glitch) now you could be interested in men (nothing wrong with that) they say that almost all guys have fantasies about other men. I doubt your gay but may be bi (best of both worlds) and it's no big deal. Main thing to keep in mind after the end of such a long relationship is to take it slow, give your self a chance to heal, and work on what makes you happy. It maybe a good opportunity to try something new and experiment. You only get one life so look on this as an opportunity and good luck.

That hatred for women may be in general, but not with every of them.

I hate a lot of people from both sexes, and there are still exceptions that I don't.

There are times that I think for some moments "I am a lesbian" or "I am hetero", but I am bi, and I just say that to me sometimes when I am pissed of. Then I calm down and start remembering again the few ones I love.

I think you just need to find women you like.
(Probably you didn't meet many people while with your girlfriend.)

(When you watch porn, aren't you still turned on to women?)

And you may be bi with some sort of preference for women.

I think there is nothing to be confused about, you don't have to difine yourself as being something.
If you want to be with a woman, go. If you want to be with a men, even if it is not the whole thing (like, just one night, or something) go for it.

But don't precipitate yourself about this.

Good luck.

I think you're just overreacting to the breakup. Think about it this way: Are you comfortable having a romantic relationship with another man? Are you comfortable living in the same house as one? Cooking for your partner, talking about deep secrets, etc? if you're not comfortable having a married-like relationship to a man like that, you're probably not gay.

I think the breakup is profoundly affecting you. Give it a few months till you get back to your old self. All the options will still be open but you'll be more rational than emotional. Good luck.

you jst lost sum trust towards women. psycologicaly you go back to your reserves (men). U NEED A GIRL!

I had a friend who told me 1 of his previous relationships which was a breakup made him bi. He had been with other women but was unable to commit emotionally. Til this he still gets down with both genders.

Our culture makes sexuality a huge gamble. Everyone has to pick a team, it's not natural, it's cultural. The pressure can be so profound you can't bring yourself to be still and think about what is right for you in this time of your life. Everyone's sexuality is individual. You know if you're attracted sexually to someone or not, no one else does. That's it.

Prob not gay but still fun to try it :p

Give yourself a while to think about it. You might be gay ( theres nothing wrong with that) or you might just be upset and angry because of your break up. dont rush into anything and just cos one female treated you badly or whatever, doesnt mean theyre all the same. youll find someone right in the end, be it boy or girl :)

Yea very normal I was with a girl once and she dumped me ever since I never really trusted women probably so I won't get sad again

Not gay.

Probably confused. Have you been arranging flowers in the kitchen and shopping for antique tea cozies? No?

Here's a test: Go online and look at a nude pic of a guy with an erect cock. Then find a video of two guys having sex. If it excites you, maybe bi, maybe gay. If no attraction/excitement, not gay.

If the part of you that you think is gay turns out to be your mouth, as Carl just said, that can be good.

lol you must absolutly take out the garbage, confess your anger and do a sport or something but remember its wrong to hate all woman for this. And 2nd we all have a gay side. I personaly havent quite got there but they say it comes with age an maturity for men. Anyways just chill. Theres nothing wrong in homosexuality.

I think u had those feelin in side u for a long time befor ur x- girlfriend an it never came out untill now!!!!

do not generalize your breakup as a breakup with women...she is just one out of 3.1 billion women in the world..you can now mature and meet another woman who you will connect with more.

BEST EXAMPLE: my cousin was in a 17year relationship n has 3 kids. The husband cheated on her n 1 week later she started dating a woman. I'm gay myself n I thought it was a man hating phase but she's been with the same woman for 5 years now. Go figure. It may be a phase or it may be real. My advice...if u masturbate over guys or think bout guys sexually then ur obviously bi if you still harbor sexual attractions to women. Good luck :)

well you were with a girl 4 7 years so ur atleast bi, i wouldnt say youd be completely gay, but give it a little time to think and basically do what MESOMIKE (51435) sugested

Nah you'r just gay!!

dude u r not gay, you just want to fuck a girl really hard thats all

Set the pain and hostility aside for a minute or two: Do you prefer men over women or vice-versa. There's your answer, smooth, sweet, and simple....like sex itself.