Confused about my sexuality

So here my story..

It's been one year since I'm confused about my sexuality.

I'm a 20years old girl and I have always been attracted to girls in a way that I had a lot of crush but never act on them. I've never had a boyfriend but when I was younger I wanted one.

Then my best friends did their coming out and I begin to ask myself some questions.

Recently at a party I kissed boys and to me it felt like I was trying to convince myself that I liked it.. Didn't enjoy it

I don't know what I want because I want to kiss girls and have sex with them but I don't want to come out like never. I fantazise a lot about girl, lesbian porn turn me on but sometimes straight porn too. I haven't had a sexual partner since my first time with a guy.. and it was fine but I was disappointed.

Maybe it is just a phase but it's not like I want a boyfriend and everytime I feel something for a guy he's gay.

The thing is I want to experiment but I'm so shy I can't flirt with anybody..

So do you thing I'm more like gay?straight?bi?asexual? Would be nice to have a little help even if I know I'm the only one who can know.. :)

Gay	49
Straight	19
Bi	62
Asexual	10

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Diver2

9 years ago

Eat some cunt and then decide.

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- EccentricWeird
  
  9 years ago
  
  This.
  
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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

Since you really seem to have no idea what you like, want or what is right for you at this point, it would probably be best if you went out and had a few affairs with each sex. There is no way you will understand yourself if you don't. But don't start out with one sex and find it enjoyable, giving the other a pass. From what you've posted, you really seem to be able to be attracted to both sexes so don't let yourself be pushed by either; choose for yourself after trying both. Many gay women do not approve of bi-sexual women, and they will try their best to insure you choose and stay with their "team", which may not be the right thing for you.
Good luck.

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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Why do you need to label your sexuality? Why can't you just enjoy who are you, instead of being so troubled over labeling it? Who cares. Like what you like and don't concern yourself over technicalities.

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- EccentricWeird
  
  9 years ago
  
  What exactly is An Thian? Or A Thian?
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    9 years ago
    
    Anthony + Ian = Anthian.
    
    Anthony and Ian are youtubers :P I am a huge fan of them and dedicated my username to them! The name sounded interesting. Iananth is alright, but that's the common name for gay Ian and Anthony fanfiction.
    
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    - EccentricWeird
      
      9 years ago
      
      I wish I had never asked.
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        9 years ago
        
        Yeah. It's a fangirl name. Sorry if it made you lose any respect you had for me.
        
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thr

9 years ago

If it's a phase, then make sure to get the best out of it.

You have already stated what you would like to do. As I understand, you have friends that are lesbians. Lucky you, go ask them for advice.

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GeorgiaLassyForever

9 years ago

It's normal and you might be bisexual. To be honest, I'm not too sure of my sexuality either.

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Blango

9 years ago

Fuck labeling yourself.
Be yourself

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Blade884

9 years ago

You would be bi, if the kissing turned you on with the boy. Unless he was gross, or the mood was really bad, that should have done something for you.

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chloroplast

9 years ago

You should try to get over that hurdle of being too shy. Even if the result is bad, it is still a good experience because you exposed yourself to your fear. If you do that enough, then the fear will diminish.
Relating to your sexuality, don't feel the need to label yourself. You are who you are, and no label can express that. ^^

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Anonymous Post Author

9 years ago

Thank your for your help ! I'll see what I can do to help myself..

The thing is I don't have lesbian friend my gay friend are gay boys so it's hard to have nobody to speak about this with them.. I also don't have a lot of girl friends because I get along better with guys :)

But thank you ;)

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- Diver2
  
  9 years ago
  
  Try sucking a cock!
  
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Crusades

9 years ago

A girl who's confused about her sexuality?? I've NEVER seen that before!

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- shuggy-chan
  
  9 years ago
  
  well i can fix that for her, i'll just sleep with her. She will guarantee turn full lessy after
  
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  - Crusades
    
    9 years ago
    
    Can't argue with that LOL
    
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dizzlydazzle

9 years ago

Sounds like you're bicurious or just bi ... On having the same problem at the moment I'm 18 almost 19 and I don't know whether I'm straight or bi .. I know I can't just be a lesbian because I know I like boys but I can't stop thinking about girls and kissing them and also lesbian porn turns me on as well I love it I watch porn like 2-3 times a day ... But seriously I'm also really confused

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overandout

9 years ago

This is all such utter nonsense. What you are is a product of a declining society and culture.

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overandout

9 years ago

This is all such utter non-sense. What you are is a product of a declining society and culture.

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