Confused about life.

I have lots of fear. I mean fear of being a failure of my life. I always want to be successful and Iam scared that I can't achieved my dream. Iam scared that my parents will be dissapointed of me. I do not want them to worry. Another thing is that a fear of being alone. Iam 22 and iam still single. Never had a girlfriend before. I always feel tired, moody and lifeless. Sometimes I feel like it's good if I never wake up to see the next day ever. Is this normal for a guy like me to feel this way.?

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Comments ( 16 )
  • guitar337

    I'm right there in my life as well, and I'm a girl.

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  • dillon10124

    Man I know what you mean, I can also relate to most of what you are saying. My life also sucks dude. I have the same feeling of being scared of failing. I'm a 20 year old guy, who is a virgin, also who really hasn't lived much. Missed out on a shit load of awesome opportunities, that drifted me by. I been there, let alone I am still there. It sucks big time. But I seriously wish you all the luck in the world. Hope our lives turn out better! =)

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  • MarijuAtheist

    You're going through a quarter-life crisis. Get out there, figure out what you want to do and enjoy, AND DO IT!

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  • womanwhowenttomars

    pick up a hobby that keeps you occupied (I picked up baking/cooking and web-development for myself). I feel that way all the time too (I'm 29 year old woman). that's why I go out and try to chill with friends. I even have pet cats to keep me company (might turn out to be a future cat lady). But cheer up, there's always tomorrow.

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  • Thts called deppression

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  • blueplane

    Try to just take things as they are, it sounds like you're expectations for life in general are a bit too high. Even the seemingly most insignificant things can make you happy. Instead of thinking about all the negative of things, point out to yourself that which is positive.

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  • dhildhil

    Thanks for all your encouragement.. I appreciate it.

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  • lola7399

    WHY BE DEPRESSED ? MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY , DO THINGS YOU'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO , STOP WORRYING SO MUCH , GIVE YOURSELF A TOUCH-UP , GO OUT AND MEET NEW PEOPLE . DONT LET PEOPLE BRING YOU DOWN , . JUST SMILE , U CANT FIND LOVE ANYWAYS IT COMES TO YOU :)

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  • I'm a little younger, but I'm stuck in the same rut

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  • time_killer

    count your blessings. get on antidepressants. anything just pull up. life is too shot to be so sad buddy

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  • Kayli

    You need to get out there and appreciate life before it passes you by. Time to man up.

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    • AntoniusBlock

      "Time to man up"?? Time to stop overimplifying people's problems!

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  • geraldoferrero

    repairing hard drive or USB drive is not recommended, as that can't totally get damage repaired and the fee is high. of course you can find a repair center to get more details or download partitionguru to check bad sectors.
    the thing is that, repairing action does harm to data on the flash drive, thus you need to make sure there is no important data on the drive.
    For data security, you can buy another USB drive to make backup and keep them separate.

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  • Starbird7

    Get up, get out.. You're old enough to have freedom but young enough to
    have opportunities so use them both! Have fun and live in the moment! Sometimes it feels more realistic to just be alone and lifeless, but it really isn't that hard to learn how to live once you try. Try daring yourself to do things you like, that make you smile. Don't be afraid. The world is big. Sometimes you have to get lost to find the best route.
    It really is time you lived your life. We only have one of them, so make the best of it.

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  • playgroundhound

    i dont know if its normal, but you arent alone, as i can relate to most of what you had to say. im a female however, and ive been in relationships before. i wish you the best of luck though. just know that u arent alone, and take it one day at a time. something that helps me to weather the storm is to find things to be grateful for...even such things as my hands, my health, and my loved ones. usually i do this and then i smile and bask in feelings of gratitude. i also write in a journal. afterwards, i tend to feel at least a tad bit better. :)

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  • Ames21

    You have depression. See a therapist it will help

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