Confident girl with attitude or sweet, awkward girl?

I didn't vote because I feel like those are two extremes and both seem annoying. A mixture between the two would be nice.

Neither, majority of men will always see women as a dick-warmer until they understand that we're people too (which can take years or never); there's no way around it. In this scenario, Girl-A is getting shit from guys too, because men perceive women like this as loose, wild, and probably fun in bed. While Girl-B is either a hidden freak in the sheets or easy to have sex with if they play Nice-Guy tactics.

Just be yourself, but be smart about the people you meet, both men and women. I'm also a Girl-B, and had some hardships too. But as long as you learn the signs and look out for subtle red flags in conversations/body language when you meet people, your life will get A LOT easier; and it'll eventually become comical the better you get at reading people because you'll spot the manipulation miles away and dodge that shit, catching guys who assume you were sweet and stupid off guard.

Good luck girl, you don't need to change yourself, just learn new skills and be a little more assertive. Also, being the hot, popular girl is only glamorous when you're young and cute, because guys are willing to put up with attitude if it means having sex with a deluxe dick-warmer; but once that girl hits those 30's/40's hard, they quickly go from a fiery hot woman to a cantankerous old lady who dresses too young.

I'm girl B but sometimes desperately wish I was girl A..

I prefer girls who are actually guys with wigs and makeup.

I'm a 60 year old man, and appreciate traits from both Girl A & B.

Confident, not afraid to stand up for herself or what she believes is right, easy to get along with, (but) takes no shit off of anyone, surrounds herself with good people, nice person with a big heart.

Girl A might be an arrogant 'bitch' - Girl B might be a doormat and a wallflower.

Be Girl C ...... and you'll be fine !

As momwatcher says, all the positive the character traits you list for both types of person can become negative if taken to extremes.

I wonder how your female friends see you. If you have some who are emotionally mature, have experience of dealing with guys and whose judgement you trust, I suspect their comments might be more helpful to you than anything anyone here can say.

Being a decent human being doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. There's no shortage of noxious guys in the world, but there are good guys too. Since your experience is that there's something about you that seems to attract asshats, maybe you need to be more proactive. Rather than sitting back and waiting for guys to approach you, what's stopping you from finding guys who seem decent and letting them know you find them intriguing?

Whoop I’m both
I guess u kinda need to get out of yourself and gain a bit of confidence. It’s hard work, but you’ll be able to say no afterwards. It’s a big problem with that character trait I believe.
Don’t be girl a, be yourself, though a healthy self

Sweet, awkward girl every day of the week! More likely to be the submissive type and that's more feminine to me. Girl A sounds way to masculine.

Send me the dominatrix!!