Compliments, i've had none

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So, I am a 23 (going 24) year old male who has never ever recieved a compliment for my physical appearence by a member of the opposite sex.

For almost all my life I have heard girls telling me my brother is hot and other people too, have told us he looks good and once someone even outed "you cannot be brothers! He is attractive and you are not!" Constantly hearing this of course got me wondering; maybe I am ugly afterall? At I at least I have figured I might be the ugly brother, but each time someone tells me my brother is beautiful, I die a little more and more inside. This however is not my main concern.

My main concern is as told in the introduction the fact that no girl has ever complimented me for my appearence. Honestly.

I've struggled with low self-esteem since I was about 10 and obviously I have never had a girlfriend. I am happy with who I am today, but not so much with what I am, i.e how I look. I do not know how common it is for girls to just throw out compliments at guys, but I figure that when you are almost 24 years of age, at least one person should've given you a compliment unless it is that you are indeed ugly.

How common is it for girls to walk up to a guy telling him he looks good, has a nice smile, beautiful eyes, a great body or whatever?

Girls generally won't compliment guys/Doesn't mean anything 30
It is very common for girls to do that/You are physically unattractive 6
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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Meh, we couldn't really know without a picture to be honest with ya, man.

    Girls, from my experience, do tell you if you're attractive, sometimes directly and sometimes it's implied. Hell, just lady night I just got told I look like Sam Winchester, that's a compliment right there. Other times it's more direct.

    Look, not all of us are attractive, some of us are ugly and that's just howit is. You can compensate for it with personality traits, being funny, etc. Maybe you should also set realistic standards when it comes to the opposite sex too.

    Good luck, man. I wish you well.

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  • Potatoskins
    7 years ago

    I don't go around complimenting guys. It's kind of awkward. Although I did say I like skinny boys but that's not the point...
    If you want to feel good about yourself, take a look at your eyes. Everyone's eyes, no matter how red or how old or foggy, are absolutely stunning. If you still feel bad, dress well and develop healthier habits like food pyramid bullcrap. I'm sure you aren't as ugly as you say,it's just the girls you hang with dont know how to not say anything. Obviously they are blind to sibling rivalry and they don't sound like they're worth your time.

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    • Decorum
      7 years ago

      Thanks, I appreciate your kind words and good advice. :)

      Cheers

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  • issamoon
    7 years ago

    well my bf isnt gd looking , but i think he is cute n i tell hom that , for me the guy s attitude is everything

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  • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#P5
    7 years ago

    How FAT are you? What's your height and weight?

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    • Decorum
      7 years ago

      Probably closer to underweihht than anything. Very skinny. 182 cm x 68 kg.

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      • Potatoskins
        7 years ago

        I like skinny boys ; )

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      • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#P6
        7 years ago

        Then I'd suggest you start working out and lifting weights.

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  • wigz
    7 years ago

    Or you might be super attractive and people are intimidated by you so they deflect by talking about your brother.

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    • Decorum
      7 years ago

      Lol

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  • Dreamsao
    7 years ago

    What matters is what's on the inside. Idk because I have never seen a picture of you. But even if you are physically unattractive, people skills can counter-act that. For some girls. I'm not gonna lie. The really pretty ones are usually shallow and looks kinda help. But who wants a shallow ass female anyway, right?

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  • Shackleford96
    7 years ago

    Yeah, me either. My girlfriend says nice things to/about me, but I know better... Being self-aware is a lonely realization sometimes.

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  • 8=====D~~~~
    7 years ago

    You seek compliments. Women today will not give them.

    Why not live your own life, and seek out your own destiny?

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