Closure is all i need.

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I'm a high school senior. The dean of students... We'll call him Mr. H.
My fourth class of the day is an office aide in Student Relations so kids come and go with their problems and of course, Mr. H is there to either bust em or sympathize with them.
So on the first day I met him he looked very excited and asked my name right away. The following day we talked about what I wanted to do in life and he was very enthusiastic. And I should mention he likes to be very close proximity of violating my comfort zone when we talk.
Then Mr. Hall patted me on the shoulder which then progressed into a lingering pat on the back, I was flattered when he told the whole office that my smile 'lights up the room" and that I should never stop, while he was explaining, his hand was across my shoulders (all buddy-buddy) but I didn't think much of it.
Recently, he asked me out of nowhere if he can see my ID, it wasn't a glance but rather a stare. Then he asked me "do you mind if I take a picture of you? I like to keep pictures of my students on my wall (in his office).... Mr. Hall saw that I play the violin, I was happy that he encouraged me but then he told me he wanted me to play just for him, I told him to just come to the concerts but he insisted "Ah, that's better! But I still want you to play just for me, to feel special you know?"
So that's when I started thinking about it and had a notion that this man is shady in some way.... I never had this kind of suspicion with ANYONE before...

So what do you think? Please. Is he a shady man or is it normal and I'm just paranoid?

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  • DumBelle
    9 years ago | pl

    I would definitely say "go with your gut" and instincts, if you feel uncomfortable and have a sense that this man has potential to cross the line -- take it seriously -- try to avoid a potentially dangerous or perverse situation.

    I get the impression that he is attracted to you and is in wait, so to speak, for an opportunity to get you alone. When you explained that he asked for your ID, I immediately thought that his intentions were to attain your full name and address.

    Be weary of him, it could be innocent, but if you're not typically "uncomfortable" and quick to judge someone's intentions, then this one person is doing something that makes you question his. The touchy-feely nature, on top of asking you for your ID, pictures and especially wanting to get you alone, sounds like something to pay close attention to and be careful of.

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    • Optimusaic
      9 years ago

      Thank you so much, very detailed (but might I add my address is not on my ID) this answer is wonderful! Thanks again.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    Hes shady as fuck. Run bitch.... RUN!!!!

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    That's guy is creepy. No school employee should do that to a student. You need to tell someone.

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  • -_-
    9 years ago

    The part where he asks for your ID makes me think he is shady.

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  • hairyfairy
    9 years ago

    It sounds as if he`s grooming you, & you should tell someone.

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