Closeted guy i have crush on only wants to hook up

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This is so embarrassing yikes

So I really really really like this guy, and I really want to be with him but he doesn’t date guys... instead he said we could hook up in secret, which really isn’t what I wanted. I want him as a boyfriend and I like him romantically, sex makes me sort of nervous and I don’t like the hook up scene.... but I really want him to like me the way I like him.

If sleeping with him could get him to like me I’ll do it, but if he just wants to have a fuckbuddy on the down low I don’t want to be that. What should I do? If he’s willing to sleep with me he’s not really straight, so do I have a chance of dating him???

He sends me texts asking me to send him nudes (I’ve never sent them, and while it makes me kinda sad he just wants sex or my body, I guess I should consider myself lucky he thinks I’m hot atleast?) so I turn him down, but when I ask if he wants to go see a movie or have dinner he says that sounds boring. He treats me pretty shitty around his friends and sometimes in private, but it’s nothing I can’t handle, and sometimes he’s super super sweet to me.

Hook up with him, he might start liking you 0
Hook up with him, but don’t expect him to care 3
Don’t hook up with him, he may like you even if you don’t 0
Don’t hook up with him, there’s no chance he will like tou 2
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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Tell him to fuck off and die. He's a bastard who will probably just use you and throw you away. You deserve better, wait for someone else... someone better.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    I think it's clear he only wants you for sex. You also said he treats you shitty. The obvious answer is to not hook up with him.

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