Close to sister

Is it normal that I have a very close relationship to my sister? We are both girls, our ages are about a year apart. We grew up together, and do almost everything together. We are rarely apart, no matter what. If I'm in the bathroom fixing my hair or putting on makeup, she will come in and take a shower or use the toilet. It doesn't bother me, in fact I do the same thing, we also dress in front of each other and will give the other advice about what looks good. We also sleep in the same bed sometimes. We shared a bed as kids and I have come to enjoy the closeness of sleeping next to her. I love cuddling up to her and falling asleep in her arms. There's nothing sexual about this, although we sometimes sleep in the nude, but we see each other nude on a daily basis so it's not really a big deal to us. If we do sleep together, I will snuggle up to her, kiss her on the cheek and tell her I love her. I never really thought about this, but after observing the relationship some of my girlfriends have with their sisters, I'm starting to think we're not normal. Not that I care about normal, I love my sister and I hope our relationship is this close our whole lives, but I guess what bothers me is thinking, do other women do this stuff with their sister, is it normal? I kind of hope so.

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Based on 139 votes (124 yes)
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  • shuggy-chan

    i think its sounds sweet. As an only child i have to say that im jealous that u have such a strong bond with a sibling.

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  • piccolapeste

    Well my sweet new friend,
    i have a twin sister and since we was child we was ever togheteher and sleep toghether in the same bad untill we was 12.
    We started since we was child to show each other body, to watch at it...then to touch each other without to know the reason
    After time we begun to kiss french each other and to masturbate each other too
    dome months we do sex toghether often also if we have our boyfriends
    we really love each other and we say that we love for ever also when married
    be quiet it is a good thing

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    • Always69withyou

      That's sweet. I hope it will always continue. 🤗

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  • squirrelgirl

    Your relationship with your sister sounds really sweet. I'm actually jealous of you. I have two sisters but I'm not close to either of them. Part of it is due to a very large age gap between us (10+ years) and part of it is that our personalities clash. I'd give anything to have a sister close to my own age (esp. a twin) who shared the relationship with me that your sister does with you. Consider yourself fortunate. :)

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  • dragonfly810

    sisters are fine but brother are better.

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  • dreamingtree

    That is absolutley beautiful! Like all of the others said: it is amazing to have a relationship lke that with your sister. you'r very lucky. I hope it continues for the rest of your life =)

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  • ljek1234

    Being an only child, and wishing I had a sister all of my life.. I think this is awesome! You two have a great relationship and I think it's a great thing!!

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  • sport

    It's above normal. You are lucky to have such a great relationship with your sister. Unfortunately bad relationships are more "normal" that good ones.

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  • mushaboom

    Aweh! Yeah that's actually cute! You two have the dream sister relationship!

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  • kittyluv

    aww. thats sweet. a lil disturbing about the changing together part... but your so close and i think its really cute!! :3

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  • Wow... What are you? Amish? How did you get on the Internet??

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  • alv1592

    Nothing wrong with that. You have a nice relationship..you're family so that's how it should be.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    It sounds really sweet, but don't you think you guys owe each other some privacy when you're using the bathroom? I don't know, thats pretty much the only part that struck me as being a little odd. Actually, I think it kinda depends on how old you both are, but I think once you hit a certain age, you don't do that stuff anymore, no matter how close you are.

    But it's actually really cool that you guys are close. I mean, you don't meet too many people who say they have a relationship that tight with their siblings. I know I'm not that close with my siblings, then again, me and my siblings have quite an age gap. Maybe since you guys are so close in age, it makes you that much tighter. I think people who have siblings so close in age with them, it's kinda like a hit or miss when it comes to their relationship being good or bad. You either can't get enough of each other, or you're at each others throats!

    Watch when you both get older too. When guys get in the picture... just make sure you don't end up having the same crush on the same guy.

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  • lc1988

    I think it's pretty cool that you guys are that close. Usually sisters with not that much of an age difference are too busy arguing over "borrowed" clothes or boys. kudos!

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  • tori

    As being as only child I am bit jealous. I always wished for a sister. And being as bonded as you are with your sister.

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  • lady4123

    Um, i don't think its normal in fact its not. But doesn't mean anythings wrong with it. :)

    In fact me and my sister are really close to, she's my best friend that I've always wanted. We don't sleep together or anything like that but i wouldn't mind, we just prefer our own beds, more room to move around. But yeah sometimes i feel like we're really weird to, but i don't care its a good thing. Especially when i see other people never talking to their siblings, like my mom and her sister, they never talk. We do everything together, in fact we're planning on moving in together once we move out, I do everything with her. Its fine we're rarely apart either, its nice to know theirs more people like us out their though. Plus she's only two years older then me so its pretty much the same.

    Don't stress :)

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  • Massotta

    I think that's great. It's not common but I don't think its bad. Keep living happy :)

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  • howaminotmyself

    My favorite family in the entire world shares this type of closeness with each other. I've never been super close with my own family but my second (chosen) family had few boundaries. Beds were shared because it was warmer and they couldn't afford heat. Brother and sister didn't sleep together or anything but the sisters did. A few years ago I took a trip to introduce my husband to them and he found me and my girlfriend cuddling in her little brother's bed watching TV. She no longer has a room in the house since she got married and moved out. My husband was the only one who thought this to be abnormal but he got over it.

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  • Well your relationship is different than others. A normal sisters relationship isnt really like that. Yours sounds similer to a lesbian relationship. But its good that you have such a close relationship with your sister. Me and my sister are like besties. I only see her on holidays and summers tho. So keep acting the way you guys are and dont care when someone says your relationship is "weird".

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  • Might as well have sex with her.
    Jk lol, I think it's good you guys keep a good relationship.

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  • ck38

    It's not normal but nothing wrong with it

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