Choose your partner´s ideal / preferred sexual frequency

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IMAGINE that you have to choose how often your partner (in a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP) wants to have sex. If you had only the following options - twice a week, twice a day, twice a month or less than twice a month - which one would you choose to be your partner´s ideal / preferred sexual frequency?

If I were in such a situation, I would prefer if my long-term partner wanted to have sex...

twice a week (I´m female)	94
twice a week (I´m male)	128
twice a day (I´m female)	61
twice a day (I´m male)	114
twice a month (I´m female)	10
twice a month (I´m male)	13
less than twice a month (I´m female)	3
less than twice a month (I´m male)	4

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Terence_the_viking

11 years ago

condoms are expensive so i just cum all over her breasts 14 times a week

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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

I would have to go with twice a week. About 4-5 times a week would be ideal but 2 times a day is too much.

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- dirtybirdy
  
  11 years ago
  
  ^that.....except twice a day is required every now and then.
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    11 years ago
    
    Yeah but everyday would be too much for twice a day and working within the poll that is what you have to pick.
    
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    11 years ago
    
    The option twice a day is for those who would prefer a partner with whom they would have sex twice a day EVERY day (= 14 times a week; 730 times (2 x 365) a year), not for those who would like it twice a day every now and then.
    
    Of course, people can personally prefer a sexual frequency which is not listed in the poll but it doesn´t matter because the task is not to indicate this but to choose a partner from the list who would be better for you in this respect (all other things being equal).
    
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    - dirtybirdy
      
      11 years ago
      
      I have problems sticking with the list. I'm sorry :( but ya, twice a day every day is too much. Am I forgiven?
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        11 years ago
        
        Sure :)
        
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randypete

11 years ago

thee times at the weekend

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deathcrazy

11 years ago

for me in a day.... as much as my partner can received... I am deathcrazy I am really in crazy for sex.

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NeuroNeptunian

11 years ago

Depends.

Sometimes twice a day, sometimes once every other day, depends on my mood, hormones and what I am doing during the week.

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- Ibelievethis
  
  11 years ago
  
  Exactly! sometimes it's finding the time isn't it. x
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    11 years ago
    
    It depends on your priorities... People for whom sex is a priority can always find time for sex - even if that means a lack of sleep and little or no time for other hobbies and activities such as eating, going out with friends etc. From this point of view not enough time for sex or a difficulty to find time for it seems to be an excuse when people want to claim that they are totally HYPERsexual and that their libido is HIGH as hell but "somehow" they can´t have sex so often because "somehow" they can´t find time for it.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Of course, people can personally prefer a sexual frequency that is not listed in the poll or that changes depending on their mood but it doesn´t matter because the task is not to indicate this but to choose a partner from the list who would be better for you in this respect (all other things being equal).
  
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  - NeuroNeptunian
    
    11 years ago
    
    Thanks for the heads up but I did before making this post.
    
    I chose twice a day.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      Ok - and what would you do if your long-term partner literally NEEDED to have sex twice a day EVERY day and you didn´t feel like having sex sometimes (because it depends on your mood, hormones and what you are doing during the week)?
      
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      - NeuroNeptunian
        
        11 years ago
        
        Well that wasn't the subject of the poll but I will go for it.
        
        I would lose my fucking mind. I probably would not choose a long term mate that would have such sexual issues.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        11 years ago
        
        Thanks for your answer :) I just wanted to know if your poll choice "twice a day" corresponds to your real preferences (when it comes to the libido of your long term mate). The poll was exactly about that - choosing a long term partner with a certain level of sexual desire (as stated in the poll description "I would prefer if my long-term partner wanted to have sex...").
        
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Ibelievethis

11 years ago

If I had nothing else to do besides have sex. I'd say twice a day, but seeing as I have to live in the real world. I'd have to opt for twice a week, as twice a month is not nearly close to enough for my ravenous sexual appitite. I'm not in a relationship. I just have one night stands when I'm feeling horny. xx

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eric07

11 years ago

Im good with 6-8 times a week
Usually my gf and I do it between 2 and 8 times a week.

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