Children what to do

This isn't real especially with the typos man

maybe you should take with u the youngest one and leave the others alone...rent a house in the same neighbour so u can check them out and live your own life...don't drop them completely cuz they 're always your babies and they need you as a mom

You're a shit parent, a selfish person, & an asshole. You had no business having one child, yet you fucked up 4 times! I hope, that in spite of you, they turn out OK. Meanwhile, I hope the authorities catch up with you for abuse & neglect. You're a piece of shit. Please make the world a better place: Die.

I know u drove my parents insane when I was that age. But I also know that kids that age NEED their parents for so much guidance. It's critical. Teens& young adults need their parents just as much as a newborn or schoolage child...just for different things. You're one shitty parent IMHO. If you weren't going to give your kids 110% in your efforts to raise them properly...why did u even bother having them?!

So don't worry. You may think that your running from them , but it is your own thoughts , feelings, reactions and attitudes that you are ttrying to shed. Chances are, although the circumstances would be nerve grating, you've got a deeper issue at play and it probably involves lacking responsibility delfishly and acute self-centeredness

Terrible mother!!! i hope you die tomorrow!!

being a product of abandonment, i just would like to shake you. no matter what, your kids need you. it's true that the older ones should be gone already, but what bout those younger teens? it worries me, seems you should stay around and teach them those tools you never gave them. it's never to late. teach them what they need to get by in a harsh world. don't just give up, you should have thought of that when you conceived that many fucking times.

People who haven't had four older teenagers don't need to be so quick to judge. I vote with the others who say that the two who are of age need to be helped to move. (I helped my 19-year-old find an apartment, helped her move and paid for the deposit and first month's rent. You obviously dont have to do that; only if you can afford to.)

Then, lay the law down to the younger two. If they won't mind, put them in foster care for while. You don't need to risk your sanity.

What the f*ck? My dad abandoned me and it screwed me up for life. So you think that just because your kids are difficult you can just f*cking quit? Good job a**hole.

What was going on that you felt you had to abandon your home & family?

Actually scratch what I just said I misread it. I thought the youngest was 12 and the oldest was 16. Yeah, you need to go back there and kick out the older kids.

What's wrong with you, you have a responsibility! Yeah, in a perfect world, there would be no worries. But you're being selfish by leaving your children! You're an idiot to think they don't need you, they are going to be scarred from this for the rest of their lives. You're just a coward, too scared to deal with reponsibility so you run away. Yeah, that age group is maddening but every parent goes through it! When they grow up you have a strained relationship you're going to realize what a huge, senseless mistake this was.

I know it's stress that drove you to running away but I can completely understand you but you need to go back and take charge and kick your older two kids out, and take back your house and deal with your 2 youngest until they can move out.

Sounds like you lost control long ago. I also have 4 kids aged 25, 23, 15 and 11 the 2 oldest are married with kids. The 15 and 11 year old are in school and are respectable and love their parents, it's too bad you didn't do your job, you see what happens when you don't

I don't think you're a real mom. Your writing style and grammar is too stupid for an adult woman.

Liberated

fake.

i have two kids and id never abandon them though they don't live with me. yeah kids can be load of crap especially at that age. but go back to them mate. it isnt right leaving them on their own like that.

plus theyre going to fuck your house up big time. why the fuck waste a good house?

you are a stupid irresponsible idiot. I hope you are arrested for child abuse and abandonment.

You brought these kids into the world they are you responsibility till you leave home I suggest you return home and do your job and raise them

Yeah, that's the way. What a wonderful world this will be when everybody runs away from their responsibilities and just look after themselves.