Childhood sexuality

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Is it normal that a young tween girl asked her brother to lie on top of her?
She is older btw

This happened to my husband when he was a child. He told me because I asked him if something happened between him and his sister because she treats me like I'm the 'other woman'.

I don't think she realises she is so transparent but when my friends met her they were like, she has control issues. She's very likeable but she wants everything to revolve around her and resents that I took her brother.

But to be honest, I think she fancies him. She has a strange way of communicating with him, like an ex girlfriend that wants to be friends- not like a sister.
It's weird.

Or is this normal?

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27% Normal
Based on 106 votes (29 yes)
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  • Pilotjones
    11 years ago

    The emphasis isn't only on her, my husband definitely needs some help. It's not just a case of playing doctor- she takes everything over concerning him and its a problem. She can't back off. We want to start a family and I'm just bloody scared she'll have a nervous breakdown cos I will be having his kid.
    She has her own family, and she encourages some damn strange behaviour with her kids and him.
    She wants him to treat her children like they are his.
    If we have kids she will definitely see it as a treat, and that's not normal that both my husband and I feel that way.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You never played doctor?

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    • Pilotjones
      11 years ago | pl

      What kind of doctor lies on top of you?

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        A very strange and/or hillarious one.

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  • MrsMacaroni
    11 years ago

    I masturbate with an electric toothbrush

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    She made him be her fuck buddy at age 14. Bet you a dollar.

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  • bristexai
    11 years ago

    He needs to tell her to back off.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    That's extremely odd. How much older is his sister? Its a possibility that he was sexually abused by her. It's disturbing. Has he ever talked to a therapist about this with a therapist? If not, I think it would be a good idea to persuade him to do so. I think his sister should also get therapy, Maybe, the two of them could have a therapy session together?

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  • Ipooprainbows
    11 years ago

    This situation sounds similar to a story I have...

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  • Charle44
    11 years ago

    It is weird, but it doesn't mean they necessarily ever did anything more than that. They're the only two kids in the family, and one of the parents left a few years earlier? It's probably nothing big. He might not even see it.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    Maybe. I think you're right in your approach but to be honest, it's something that should be sorted out before things get worse, or someone dies, I don't know. If anyone can get her to admit it, it'd be your husband. In time, right?

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    • Ipooprainbows
      11 years ago

      woops, The comment from me was meant for you above^ sorry

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    No. It might not be the whole picture. Has your husband thought of talking to her about it?

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    • Pilotjones
      11 years ago

      I doubt it's the whole picture but that's as much as I'm going to get out of him for sure. It took him a long time to admit this so I'm not going to push it any further. He won't talk to her about- it too much shame, and knowing her she will just rationalise it anyway.

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      • Redhood
        11 years ago

        He's your husband he needs to be able to trust you with any thing and so what if he and his sister did some kiky things

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      • Ipooprainbows
        11 years ago

        agreed! perhaps also seeing a psy might help. She definitely some means of counsel work to sort out her issues, same for your husband.

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        • Short4Words
          11 years ago

          Yea I was going to say the emphasis shouldn't all be on her, he's her brother and was obviously involved, if anyone can help her, it'd be him.

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          • Ipooprainbows
            11 years ago

            that's true, I think they ought to work it out together whilst talking to a counselor or even a phy.

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        • Ipooprainbows
          11 years ago

          *needs

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