Cheating. is it true?

Ok,
So i've met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we are now in a relationship. He is really sweet. He is always there for me, drive 40 minutes to come see me everyday... He has to travel a lot because of his work. However, he always calls and texts me . He knows i've been cheated on in the past so he really does everything so i can fully trust him.

From the beginning he was very patient with me (because i've really been hurt in my last relationship so i have trouble letting go). Anyways... i truly love and trust him.

Today, i received a message from an ex girlfriend of his telling me that he's still her bf and that he spends time with her every week (she lives an hour away). She gives a lot of details. i dont reply and she keeps on messaging me. every 10 minutes i have a new message on my facebook. she's really insisting.

Talked to my bf about it and he says that since he broke up with her (last summer) she's been creeping his facebook and texting him constantly. He told me he called her to tell her to leave him alone but her version is: he called wanting to get back together and that he's still in love with her.

They dont have any pictures together on fb and are not even friends on fb. So do i believe my bf or that girl that i dont even know? HELP ME!

He's cheating 16
You need to believe him 28
You need to believe her 1
She's a freak 44
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Comments ( 11 )
  • shuggy-chan

    i vote dont trust a crazy bitch

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  • GrayGhost352

    She won't let go. If he sees you everyday he's making an effort to be true to you. I think he's telling the truth.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Trust him, that girl sounds crazy. Block her on Facebook.

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  • Mando

    She's just nuts.

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  • GuessWho

    It could be that SHE wants him back and is doing this in an attempt to break you guys up, in hopes that he comes running back to her if he can't have you.

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  • Listen

    I'm a guy and I can't really imagine spending 40 minutes seeing a girl every day when I can go get sex from this other desperate chick. I bet he's cool, sort it out with him.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Stalk him. SPYYYY

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  • kelili

    Some girls are crazy. She wants to hurt the guy and is using you to do it.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Jealousy makes people volatile.

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  • valisque

    where does he even get the tym to c her if he's always wit u?

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  • PapzBSlim

    Do not believe her. If he was with her, she would definitely not accept him being with you at the same time. She would have been left him. She is trying to separate the two of you because of her greed and jealousy.

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