Cheating

It's normal to wanna get back with him.
But DON'T.
I promise you'll regret it entirely.

Don't even waste your time with a cheater and don't give him positive reinforcement to cheat on someone else by giving him another chance.

He needs to learn cheating is not acceptable behavior for his and his mates own good.

He took your virginity which was something somewhat valuable to you and he abused you by betraying you. If you take him back he's most likely to keep cheating.

And guess what, he's probably not that great of a guy because the slut he cheated with didn't even want him!

Find a new guy, they're everywhere.

if he makes you happy take him back then cheet on him so he knows how it feels

I always thought its good to give someone a Second chance! After that they are just plain straight Bastards if they continue with BS

Move on and find someone better. I did, and I've never been happier. If this guy really wanted to spend the rest of his life with you, he wouldn't have cheated. Find a Man who will treat you with love and respect.

The double exclamation and question marks are fucking annoying. You write like a 13 year-old girl.

No! He blew it the first time and stabbed you in the back, he doesn't deserve a second. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Don't do it!

she dumped him because there was no more risk of being caught. she liked the game of doing something that was wrong... and he went along with it. Any relationship that has many ups and downs and one person forgiving more than the other...then that is an unhealthy relationship. One that you both will be doing yourselves a disservice by getting back together.

your in love with him but hes awful. there you go. stay away form him

He took your virginity...does that mean he owes you something?

Otherwise just go your separate ways

once a cheater
always a cheater

what makes you think he wont do it again after?
men are men on top of everything
and when they see chicks temptations always there

It is perfectly normal to want to give him another chance because you obviously had very deep feelings for him. I'm not going to say once a cheater always a cheater because I think pretty much every guy cheats one time or another. I do caution you on getting back with him. I had an ex I was with for like 3 years and I discovered he was cheating right after he gave me a ring. We did get back together like 5 months or so after and stayed together for about a year and a half after that and even though I'm 99.9%% sure he didn't cheat during that time, I couldn't trust him. I became paranoid everytime he was home 15 mins later than usual and I was constantly snooping and trying to keep tabs on him. Our relationship just wasn't the same, neither one of us really trusted the other and so after that point, I broke up with him because I didn't like who I'd become. Obviously it's your choice and there's a chance it may just work out but it probably will never be the same.

Its gonna be funny when he cheats on you again when you are MARRIED.

dont waste your life on someone like this. Been there done that. I finally moved on after a few years and now and happily married to someone else.

fuk yes its normal
u also have to look at the reasons y he cheated on u.
u should talk to him about it.
im sure after all this he will most likely never cheat on u.
and he misses u alot no boubt. i was witha girl for 1 year n i cheated on her once.
she found out n we broke up. and i hated myself. after a few months we got back together and i will never do it again dats for sure.

screw him!
you don't marry a cheater!

If he cheats on you now, before you're married, what the heck do you think he's going to do AFTER you're married??? Don't waste your time with this loser. Yes, it's normal to want him back, but I seriously recommend that you write this guy off and find someone who is not a cheating pig who respects you!

Yea i think that the main reason yo want to get back with him, is you have been with him so long thats all you know and thats what your confartable, you just have to look in your heart to see if you can forgive him and make sure hee know that if you do he cant cheat and you will always come back

I think you should date other guys first just to see what you may be missing. If he still wants to be with you and tries to make an effort, then maybe you can give him another shot. He doesn't seem like he will do that though, and he seems a bit on the immature side, sorry to say that.

I think you should just forget about him.
If he's gonna cheat on you and then you know stay with the girl (for a week) he cheated on you with wtf.
Sounds like he wants you back because the other girl broke up with him and he probably cant find another girl.
Well whatever i have been through a lot too thinking going back out with someone again might make them change.
People don't change. They don't.
They cant and they wont.
no matter how much you think you love him you guys have been separated for a while now he was probably doing a lot of other woman.
getting diseases and stuff ughhh

once a cheater, always a cheater... He will most likely do it again even if your were to turn into the hot slut of his dreams and let him have you anyway, anytime and anywhere.... Of course if you let me have you anyway, anytime and anywhere I wouldn't cheat on you. I promise baby... really...

don't give him another chance as much as you might want to. he gave you up for another girl and might still be with her if SHE hadn't dumped HIM. Marry him after this?? What are you totally soft in the head??

Dr. Spammy's recomendation - Get in touch with Mr. Javelin. After a night of my treatments I promise you won't even remember whats-his-name's name. And you'll be better off for it.

he is your first by the sounds of it. I think you should move on and have a single life without atachments for a while and experience life in general and maybe in a couple of years when yous have both had a bit of life experience you may get back together and it will be better then I reckon

well depends, if you remember the relationship as mostly good then give him ONE chance. Don't become a doormat tho.

If the time with him wasn't so good, maybe you shouldn't bother.