Cantlove any girl anymore

after having had miserable and dissapointing relationships i can not realy love any girl in my life all i think about girls is like sex; only if i feel lust in me,just after i lose my lust ,girls seem like neutral object (like guys) is it normal or?

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  • Anime7

    I'm sure that there are plenty of guys like you out there. I don't blame this behavior but it is detrimental to society as a whole. I understand that sometimes being in a relationship with someone can be difficult but that doesn't mean that all relationships are like that. Try talking to women before you go out with them. There are some amazing girls out there, I'd hate to see a guy like you ruin them.

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  • Corleone

    I think that's temporary. Building trust takes time, but keep in mind that there's no need for stigmatizing all women.

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  • lufa

    Girls can be difficult in relationships but don't tar them all with the same brush.

    My own gripe is that I no longer get the opportunities I once did and dated the wrong girls while being too reluctant to go after the ones I really should've dated.

    I used to get emotional like you and blame woman-kind because of one or two heart-breakers, but every girl is different. One might be a terrible person but another could be the woman of your dreams-keep an open mind.

    Also I used to think that I'd never find a girl better than the last one I dated and yet I always did. However that was the past and lately I haven't been coming across many quality women-but I'm remain optimistic I'll find ms right one day.

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  • joybird

    I know one man in his 40s like this. He gave up on love after a broken marriage but in general, it's not normal.

    I hope that both he, and you, will find someone to fall in love with some day.

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  • I really dont care anymore.

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  • Gοd

    i detest sex dont have till ur older ans married cuz it saysmso in my crappy book!

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  • thanks guys for attention and comments but it really feels like it has been forever

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