Cant find a girlfriend

patience and wanking

Hey, it's fairly normal. I didn't date my first (and current) girlfriend till I was 19 either. It can be pretty hard if you don't have any female friends, but remember that they don't have to be best friends before you ask them out.

The best advice that I took when I was single, was to be happy with yourself as you are, being single. Because if you're not happy with yourself single, then you won't be happy with yourself dating either, because you'll be validating yourself based on who your partner is.

I found that being this comfortable with yourself (whatever others think of you), really helps with confidence too.

i am driving crazy because i do not have a girlfriend i see all the other guys with a girlfriend and i do not have one. i am getting depressed and feel like i am totally different from all my other friends and classmates. help me !!!!

Aww poor well im a girl and i like shy guys...I never dated until like now...but i kinda don't like the guy but at least he is my age....and YES!! in life you will find someone...I promise!
My name is my middle name haha!

Word, me too - except I'm not good looking...

You have GOT to learn to break out of your comfort zones. My God son, females are the majority of the population and you can't find one you like? Tip... make more male friends, use them to network you into girls you may like. That is the perfect method for a shy one like yourself.

dude its has to do with your confidence always try to feel good about your self think less about things u don't have.i was in the same situation during my senior year i couldn't talk to girls i its made mi feel guy instead i started working out and that gave with a little boost, i wanted to ask a girl i like out but could not because i had a few weeks to graduate

You're just being shy, there's nothing wrong with that. You're ultimately a male, shy or not, when you meet the right girl, you will do whatever it takes to win her heart. There are girls who like shy guys but unfortunately, unlike what some posters say, it's very unlikely a girl is going to come up to a guy and ask him out. So you'll have to ask her out at some point.

But shyness can happen for many reasons. Afraid of embarassment? Rejection? Sometimes we as men just have to take it and move on. Take it like a school test, if you do badly, you just have to improve for next time and try again.

Some people like shy people, I myself am shy. However, many people believe that it is all in your confidence and the way you approach things. Try a few new things and something may eventually work.

haha aww yes of course its going to happen! im i girl and i personally like the shy ones ive always been the type of girl to walk up to a guy so there are some girls like me that walk up to guys and ask them out. dont worry you will find a girl in time just be patient

Heres what you do. You walk up to a girl. You say 'heres what I wanna do to you'. "I wanna wrap you in plastic wrap, and cut two holes. One for your mouth and one for your" *SLAP* LOL

I'm you in girl form lol

I'll be eighteen in three months. No one believes me that I've never had a boyfriend. Don't worry, I think people like us just don't want to waste our time in a relationship without the possibility of it going somewhere so we wait.

Hahaha its allright pookie youll get a girl someday

ive always had a thing for the shy type

Be careful of what you wish for...

so cute! <3
hehe dont worry about it... finding a girlfriend takes patience. thankfully ur not just picking up any girl off the block. when u find someone u want for ur girlfriend, go ahead and ask.

It will happen no worries

You'll find the right girl one day. It's a good quality that you are shy. Just stand up you yourself and your girl at the appropriate time. Focus on your studies and girls will come naturally.

Yeah - a girl friend is unlikely to just fall into your lap despite your stunningly good looks.

Get over the shyness. Ask someone out on a date. Just do it.

I am 18 and single and I haven't had a decent bf, I am also shy and i know what it's like to want something but no be sure of it. It will happen when the times right and this is a learning experience for you. First, write down a list of what you look for in a girl and sooner or later a girl will come ago and fit you very well. :)

well i dont know ya but you seem to understand your not BAD looking. but personally, i think your being to picky. girls dont have to FIT you. sometimes having differences causes a fun sort of friction in a relationship. lol get out there and ask a girl out, dont kiss on the first date, clean up shave and such, and pay for everything. be confident and learn your game friend! find a pretty one and make us all proud! best of luck!

You'll never find her if you're looking for her.

your a late bloomer! relax! the right girl will come along.

FUNNY YOU RELATE TO ME ALSO I AM 20 AND HAVE NOT HAD A BF YET BUT I AM PRETTY AND I KNOW THAT GUYS WOULD THINK I HAVE HAD MANY BF BUT REALITY IS I HAVEN'T :( I THINK IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN SOONER OR LATER JUST HAVE TO BE PATIENT I WOULD THINK THAT SINCE US GIRLS ARENT THE TYPE TO APPROACH GUYS FIRST EVEN IF YOU ARE SHY YOU HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO APPROACH US BUT KNOW HOW TO DON'T BE LIKE HEY GIRL UR HOT THAT SUCH A TURN OFF TALK LIKE SHE IS A FRIEND LIKE HEY DO YOU KNOW WHERE I CAN FIND THIS STORE OR YOU REMIND ME OF SOMEONE I USED TO KNOW AND START A CONVERSATION JUST NOTE THAT MOSTLY IS THE GUYS THAT HAVE TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE I KNOW YOU ARE SHY BUT IF YOU ARE CUTE YOU HAVE TO BE CONFIDENT IF THERE ARENT GIRLS AROUND WHERE YOU LIVE GO TO THE STORE OR SOMEWHERE BUT START SMALL TALK TO THE CASHIER FIRST TO BUILT YOUR CONFIDENCE THEN GO UP TO A GIRL WHO IS BY HERSELF IF SHE IS WITH FRIENDS YOU ARE GOING TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE JUST START OUT SMALL

Yes. You will find mrs.right someday. I mean, you are only 18. You have practically a whole life to find the one.