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iv only slept with 5 people but iv never had an orgasm while actually having sex, only with pleasuring myself. i have the drive to be with another person and i still enjpy it but guys get dissapointed when i dont orgasm. is this a common problem?
A have a friend who hadn't had a single orgasm in her life until her seven year marriage broke up when she was 25. First she went to work on herself and discovered what she'd been missing out on and then she found ways of getting her new partners to hit the spot. Previously she hadn't been telling her husband what felt good, what to do more of, where, harder, faster, whatever. She also began to open up and explore fantasies she would have been ashamed to raise before and this also helped.
If you can get to orgasm by yourself then any man should be able to get you to orgasm too if given enough communication.