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ok.....i am a tomboy and i want to change for this guy i like and i want to be a girly girl so he wont think of me as just one of the guys...please give me any ideas, ways, and methods to achieve my goals
No! Why don't you just find someone who actually likes you as you are, not who you can pretend to be?
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Why the fuck would you want to change yourself. You don't have to do shit besides be receptive.
Touch him arm. Be playful. Throw him a big smile. compliment him. You don't have to be someone else.
Then you will have to buy around 100 pairs of shoes a walkin closet filled with clothes and lots of make up... more or less... Then again arent people supposed to like you for who you are...
Thank you everyone for all the amazing comments and advices....i am not gonna change, he should like me for who i am and if not....then he is just not good enough for me......thank you guy
Oh, you asked how to change. Of which I gave suggestions and I think there was only one other that helped there as well.
But now with all the negative comments about don't change be yourself, you have decided not to change for 'him'.
If you ever decide that YOU want to do this (AGAIN) then make sure to state that 'I' part very boldly, otherwise people may feel that your choices are not important!
No need to change for a guy. Find a guy who will like you for who you're inside. But try a girly hair style, some make -up. Lipstick/lip-gloss, little mascara, pinkish clothes. Start watching girly shows on TV. Sex in the city, Real house wives, My Little Pony. Watch a lot romance stuff.
Girl belive me thats expensive and unconfortable. i chose to be 50/50 im cute and tomboy at the same time. Im cute and sexy to the guy i likr but to my friends im just another bro.
Just be yourself and charm him. Since your like one of the guy your probably closer to him than other girls. He'll eventually notice your not one of the guy but a girl if you just show him how amazing you are the way you are. Dont ever change yourself for anyone. You'll only hurt yourself.
If you change yourself so some guy will like you you'll just end up hating the relationship. Trust me, I know.
There are many stories that the response "don't change" is the perfect answer to, and anything that includes the words "I want to change for this guy/girl I like" is one of those stories. He'll either like you for who you are or, if you do change, he'll see through it. Honestly, when a girl changes for a guy it's almost always really obvious, and it comes across as desperate. This is the sort of scenario that the phrase "be yourself" was made for :)
You don't have to change yourself to please someone but if you wanna look more girly just wear more skirts and dresses, long flicky hair, bit of makeup (not overdoing it). The main difference between 'girly girls' and 'tomboys' is in attitude though, as girly girls tend to be more passive and tomboys more aggressive. But you can't hide your personality and why would you want to? You want him to like you for who you really are.
Yoo shouldn't change bit if yoor going too anyway I suggest Topshop clothing, hair extensions (or a weave) and just the smallest bit of make up (eyeliner & lipgloss will do) but seriously changing for people is not a good idea, they should like yoo for who yoo are & if they don't they are not worth yoor time x
The only advice I got for you: If you really want to change that about yourself, you gotta change your mindset aka inside, not the appearance (aka the outside).
You should never change for anyone. Plus he may fall in love with someone who isn't really you then the relationship will never work.
Well the suggestions would depend on your age.
But start wearing brighter and more colorful clothing (ideally pink)
Actually get your hair done so you look feminine.
Cover up any bruises and cuts (ideally allow them to heal, even use proper medical attention like bandages (Lol) scars don't look pretty, and open wounds are yucky)
use makeup to hide imperfections and express your features more (ie eyeliner, foundation etc etc etc etc etc)
Get some nice girly perfume, body wash and spray.
Start wearing those jewelery that you could never wear in a football match! Like bangles and rings.
Oh and lastly, cross your legs girl, and walk like others are noticing.
If this is all too much for you then don't do it, but it would be nice to see a tomboy being a girly girl just for a few days.