Can you get in a relationship with a "hoe"?

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So I met this girl and I brought her to a friends party. She was my date an everything was smooth, especially for being the first time meeting her. I actually think she has a nice personality and she looks amazing... But the downside is that my friends know of her and tells me she's been around with a lot of guys. They keep telling me she's a hoe and whatnot. But when I talk to this girl, she's serious with me. She actually wants to form a close relationship in the future instead of the whole DTF scene. Should I take my chances with a girl that I like but doesn't have a great past, or should I just leave?

Yes, you can form a relationship 63
No, it's not a good idea. 34
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Even hoes need love too. :) You don't know for sure that the gossip about her is accurate anyway, so make her yours.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    So Parrish can bang 75+ women and nobody says a word, but if a girl does the same she is a hoe? lolz

    In all seriousness though, a girl that is classified as a "hoe" is a girl that explores her sexuality in a way that it is more like a guy. There is nothing bad about a girl that has had multiple partners before you, and in most cases it will make her a better lover!

    What happened before you and her were together, she is just a girl, like any other girl. All that matters is how she acts since you have meet her. Does she act in a way that you feel like you could date her?

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    • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
      11 years ago

      what if either the man or woman only had limited exp. and their partner was a fucking whore how fair would that be?

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        If her having multiple partners is something that will bug OP he should stop leading the girl on, but if he can forgive a person for a past she had before she meet him I still don't see a problem with it.

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    11 years ago

    You realize a hoe is a gardening tool right? Lol

    I mean hey, yes HOES do need love too. All they do is sit in the shed all day. No sunlight, no love...

    So yes, very understandable.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      I bought a new hoe two days ago and I love it. I give it plenty of attention and use. :)

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago

    How do you know she's been around? Maybe your friends are lying because they're jealous. Happened to me. My boyfriend heard a lot of shit that I've "done", never did ANY of it.

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    • DrinaVonCheez
      11 years ago

      Same. I was with my bf for nearly 2 yrs, then a couple months ago he heard a bunch of rumors that I've been sneaking around his back for awhile & messing around with an older guy from people that know me (but won't say who)
      It's so lame because I'm so faithful. I hate small towns.
      Now all his friends & probably family hate me & don't want me talking to him :/

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      • BurnaBaby27
        11 years ago

        Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. Fuck him! He shouldn't believe his "friends" over his longterm girlfriend. Some people just love to hate. It's pathetic. You'll find someone better :}.

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        • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
          11 years ago

          bitch friends are like family, but then i takes a chick that hot to cause rumors

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          • BurnaBaby27
            11 years ago

            True and true.

            And don't call me "bitch", bitch. :}

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Ho's are good, they put out you see.

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  • xXScYtHeXx
    11 years ago

    A few of Girls become "hoes" as they can't find the right guy and they keep messing with lots of guys in hopes of finding the right person but they don't do so for a long time, give this girl a chance, she seems sweet.

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  • Riker300
    11 years ago

    bleach_baby is absolutely right. Any man or woman you connect with (unless they are a virgin) has had sex with some one. You may even cross paths with your companion's former lovers in the course of a relationship. The past is the past, nothing can be done to change any of it. It takes a level of maturity and self-confidence to build a lasting romantic relationship. They are not for kids and insecure people. Best of luck to you. If you really like this woman and you think she is special you would not refer to her as a whore.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Try it, but don't try to get attached until the first year is up. It is a good possibility that she cheats on you, but there is a good chance she won't, so act like you are attached, but refrain yourself from actually being attacthed, then once a year is up, and you know for a fact that she hasn't cheated, start being real with her.

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  • blondbond69
    11 years ago

    Dont believe the rumors.

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    good for sex, but a hoe is a hoe.I don't believe that people can change. they absolutely will think they can and try, but you know the saying: "once a thief.." if you're an emotional masochist and want her banging everything that moves behind your back, and then having nervous breakdowns cause she's torn apart between her wide spread legs and a "true love" -sure go ahead!

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    You shouldn't believe all the gossip people tell you.

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  • bleach_baby
    11 years ago

    So what if she's slept around? If she was single, that doesn't mean anything. If she has a history of cheating, that is what I'd consider a "ho" and might be concerning, not someone who is single and living life to the max.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    It's not about her past, it's how she treats you. If she's nice to you, doesn't seem like a cheater to you, then I say go for it.

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  • nowhereboy
    11 years ago

    I once went out with a girl who had a similar reputation. We built our trust and had a great relationship.

    Two years in i found out she was sleeping with two of the guys from her workplace in the public toilets on her work break.

    True story :(

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    Down to fuck, lol.

    I say you should try it, but I know very little of these matters...

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