Can you be sexually attracted to someone because of their personality?

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Can you be sexually attracted to someone because of their personality solely even if their looks aren't beautiful or cute?

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  • redberrylemon
    8 years ago

    Totally. I did that before.

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  • DolphinAngel
    8 years ago

    I'm guessing it works like this:

    If you are sexually attracted to someone, you may or may not be emotionally attracted to them.

    If you are emotionally attracted to someone, you will most likely also be drawn to them sexually because being close to them emotionally makes you want to be close to them physically, too.

    I'm not sexually attracted to most human males but I've fallen for a guy because of his personality and would say that despite not finding him sexually attractive, I feel more drawn to him sexually day by day.

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  • duct_tape_heart
    8 years ago

    That's the best kind of attraction!!! Anyone can lose a few pounds, or treat acne, straighten teeth, wear cooler clothes, dye their hair, or put on makeup. Trust me, outside makeovers are easy! What's really difficult to change is a person's brain. If their personality is great and you like the way they think enough to want to have sex with them, DO IT! lol. worry about chemistry more than physicality.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I needed to hear this so badly. Thank you. Was hurt badly. The sad thing is the person did claim to be in love with me, but not attracted to my looks so he couldn't be with me. I know now he's a jerk, because he led me on, but I still needed to hear he was wrong and foolish. He said I was the kindest person he ever met and treated him better than anyone. Well he lost that now. Thank you!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Absolutely.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    I think one can.

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    • BlackyHancock
      8 years ago

      I think toucan

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      • xXAlphaMaleXx
        8 years ago

        I think threesomes are fun.

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  • shuggy-chan
    8 years ago

    Gasp, what blasphemy is this!?!?

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  • charli.m's_Constant_Period
    8 years ago

    Absolutely. Uninhibited skanky whores who are comfortable in their skin are very attractive to me.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    I don´t think so. A person you fancy gets more beautiful but I dont think I could be attracted to someone UGLY. I was with a fat guy, was not attracted to his body but he had a cute face so that sort of worked for us.

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