Can you be attracted to a friend but repulsed when he kisses you?

My best guy friend and i have had a mutual attraction for some time now and just started dating. I love everything about him but he kissed me last night and it felt wrong. Almost like I was kissing my brother. Will that ever go away? Is that normal?

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Based on 67 votes (54 yes)
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  • missbrightside

    Had this exact thing happen to me. He was my best friend but when we kissed I literally almost puked. Maybe it was because he had horrible breath and has abnormally large lips, i'm attracted to him but just can't kiss him. It grosses me out. He's also a very sloppy kisser.

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  • OnThisEpisodeofLife

    I feel that way. There is a guy who is cute but if he kissed me I might puke. To me attraction is not just physical ! A real attraction is physical, emotional, and spiritual.

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  • Sabaky

    You guys shouldnt date he will always be your friend:( srry

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  • Stephanie_87

    Uhhh u need some sparks of chemistry to curl your toes

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  • Musicplayer

    It probably wont ever really work out. Its a wierd feeling, and not exactly pleasant.

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  • Just stick to sex and you'll be ok

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  • Mel

    Not normal, cant help the way you feel...you may like him, but if the "spark" isnt there, it prob never will be. Although first kisses can be awkward & nerve racking...I say give it a few more times & if its still really strange, youre prob better off just as friends. I had a similar situation before.

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  • HSVWHO

    I have been there.. It never went away, but then again we were friends for .3 years and dated for a week because of this.
    Everyone is different, I am not sure you find him attractive, cos wanting to kiss someone is part of that attraction.

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