Can't stand my gf's kid

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So I've been talking to this woman for awhile now, and I knew from the get go that she has a daughter, well like a baby, she's two. I myself have a son as well but he's 14. The issue is, for some unbeknownst reason, I don't like the baby at all. I am not naturally a "kid person" but this kid really just makes me want to scream. I understand that's she's two blah blah blah....but she's not disciplined at all and embarrasses me when we go out to dinner etc. I feel terrible sometimes that I dislike her so much, but she's unruly and has no manners. I have never dates someone with a kid, and I am not sure I can do it.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago | pl

    Choice

    Walk or go through the drama cause the kid ain't going nowhere

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    If its not your thing you should get out doesn't make sense to stay if your unhappy.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    PS: And I did mean talk about YOUR feelings, not her qualities as a mother, as in: "When x does (whatever it is) when we're out I feel embarrassed. How do you feel about his/her behaviour?"

    By the way, were you caring for your child by yourself when h/she was 2 years old? I'll bet not ........

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    there's nothing to feel ashamed about if you can't handle it you can't handle it. But if you can't take it then you need to end the relationship.

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  • weirdgirl26
    7 years ago

    If you don't like her then leave. Stop wasting your time with her and don't you dare stay and try to break up a family. Be a man. There are other fish in the sea.

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  • BareClaire
    7 years ago

    I cant stand my brothers 2 kids.
    My neice and nephew drive me insane and I am glad to see the back of them when they go home.

    My brother didnt raise his kids the way.our parents raised us or they would be well behaved and not destroy my living room every time they come round.
    I am planning on making the spare room into a gym or renting it out just so they cant stay when they make the trip to Sydney..

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  • Canon12
    7 years ago

    It gets down to you and the Mother. She's responsible for the baby and it's a topic you are going to have to discuss with her. No fun and there is no way you can win this argument. Basically you will be telling her that she's not a good Mother. Time to move on.

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  • dirtybirdy
    7 years ago

    I feel the same about my younger niece. What a brat she is.

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  • lucidicul81
    7 years ago

    I was up front with her from the beginning, about not being much of a kid person. Funnily enough, she isn't either, so I know it's difficult for her too. I have talked to her about my feelings, and no, not about her "parenting skills". I think she is just overwhelmed. I do well when I am with both of them, It's not as if I am a jerk. guess I just need to think about it.

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    • Jujudog
      7 years ago

      how does the kid embarrass you when you are out? for instance like..?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    So you've talked to your gf about your feelings? I'll bet not

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  • eatmetoo
    7 years ago

    So leave her the fuck alone ASSHOLE!!! If she knew how you felt she would drop you as a "friend?"

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