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I'm in college (can't say the year coz it might be obvious) and I have this guy friend I've been really close with since 1st year, I guess. I think I'm starting to have feelings for him. We used to talk a lot and joke a lot and I know his secrets and he knows some of my secrets. But he likes someone else. I don't know why but I get this feeling that he is also flirting with me. And everybody sees that too. I mean what's with him, asking me how I'm doing and showing too much concern for me. I'm trying to avoid him now. Is that normal? What should I do? But I don't really have the guts to ask him about "US" . Help. :(

Tell him how you feel 21
Don't tell him how you feel 1
Continue avoiding him 3
Ask him directly 4
Observe more 6
You're being treated like a little sister 5
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "I don't really have the guts to ask him about 'US'"

    The problem with most people is not that they don't know the solution, it's just the solution isn't the one they were looking for (ie simple and easy).

    And so they search and search and nothing ever gets solved. It's like watching someone chase the horizon.

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  • q25t
    11 years ago

    " what's with him, asking me how I'm doing and showing too much concern for me"

    That is just being nice. Not every guy "wants" every girl they talk to. It is possible to just be friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Being a good friend equals the guy wanting you...

    He is just being a friend. Leave him alone in that manner, as he obviously is not interested.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Some comments here hurts but then it's somewhat true. Thanks everyone! :)

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    • peterrabbyt2
      10 years ago

      Suck the fucking guy off and then look at his face and eyes as you swallow his load. That is good advice.

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  • Lia
    11 years ago

    Just be blunt and ask him if anything could ever happen between you two.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    ask em directly is what i would do with a girl but im to weird for girls my age as they put it. go for it

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Stop dramatising.

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    Kick the intensity up a notch. If he doesn't back down, ask him out for a nice date and give him some special attention in your bedroom. In the morning you will have a clearer perception of your future together.

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