Can't choose between two guys?

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i desperately need help... i met a guy at work who was crazy hot and funny and we had an instant connection, but he already had a girlfriend at the time and nothing happened between us. I started dating another guy on my side who I love very much and has the best personality even though he's not that hot, and I feel comfortable with him. Now, the first guy is single and I don't know what to do... I know I have no idea what his personality is like but I can't get him out of my head now... Knowing that both guys and myself want to start a family and that's the craziest dilemma ever... please help me ...

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  • tonyyaa
    6 years ago

    No matter who you pick...Karma will come back at you

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago

    Break up with the guy you are currently dating. It's not fair to waste his time when your attraction is elsewhere. Unfortunately, you're the type of girl who strings a slew of terrible romances together ultimately to be pumped and dumped.

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    Nobody can make this decision for you, but if you truly love the guy you're with atm do you really want to ruin that for somebody you don't really know?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      You are right... But at the same time I really wish something would happen between us and it's shallow of me since I'm already dating someone else...

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      • paramore93
        6 years ago

        Sounds like you're not really in love with the guy you're with now if you're looking elsewhere ..

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    *Smacks head on table*
    *Realizes it's not good enough*
    *Puts pencil on table*
    *Joker magic tricks myself*

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  • NinjaKitten
    6 years ago

    i got to say. if ur feelings of love for the guy you are with now. arent of pure affection where you want him to be everything in ur future. ur just wasting his time. i bet he wants to find his love of the life have kids and that cliche life we all actually want but deny. if ur gonna become unfaithful to ur boyfriend the second a hot guy enters the radar. its just cruel not thinking about his feelings clearly. ur being quite selfish thinking only about ur self right now. you have to remember they are both humans. what if he said ''oh but this smoking hot girl just became single! sorry im breaking up with you, just for the change of it. since you dont look like nothing special it was only comforting having a choice''
    not really nice right. consider both of their feelings properly, world doesnt propell around you only.

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