Can someone who did something bad still be a good person ?

I fingered my friend while she was sleeping. I've regretted it ever since and I know what I did was wrong. am I a bad person ? and if so, what can I do to be a good person ? or to "be forgiven" ?

yes they can 11
no they cant 1
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  • Make sure to never do it again. Only engage in such contact when you have a verbal "yes" to show consent is given. Otherwise you could get yourself into a lot of bad trouble.

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  • Freedom_

    You sick fucking bastard. You are a molester. I think you can be a good person, which entails difficulty in ever forgiving yourself. You should tell your friend about it and let her punch you in the face and then in the balls later while you are sleeping. I say this as someone who has possibly unknowingly been in your friend's position. Unless she is ok with such a thing, this friendship should be over.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Small infraction; penalty; learn from your mistake.
    Let it go, it was a moment of weakness. Stop with the guilt trip, after all, it's not like you drove drunk and killed a couple of people, is it?

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