Can shy guys be amazing lovers?

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Are shy guys generally not as good lovers as the really confident ones? Or can shy guys also be amazing lovers?

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    Every shy guy that I've been with is better in bed.

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  • Light-Yagami
    9 years ago

    Definitely. Shy guys are, well, shy, but often shy people actually turn out to be really nice once you get to know each other.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    Im shy at first, but have always been told that I am an amazing lover. I just need to get to know someone first.

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  • Jsmythe73
    9 years ago

    That's kind of like the 'Nerd' versus 'Jock' question!!

    Do you want a hot-looking guy, that treats you like trash, and a play toy, or a kind of 'average' or 'Nerdy' guy that wants to know all your little quirks, and make you smile!??

    Most go for the 'Hot guy' and they get treated like a toy, and they cry to their 'Nerdy' of 'Shy' guy friends, saying they can't find a 'Nice guy that cares about them!'

    I would choose someone that could be a best friend, and companion, over some phoney, enhanced 'model' type, with no soul, but just looks that are 'enhanced' by surgery!

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    'Amazing lovers' in what way?

    If you mean can shy guys be great partners within a relationship, no more or less than anyone else.

    If you mean great at all the physical, intimate stuff, I'd say ONLY when they're comfortable enough to overcome their shyness in the bedroom. Shyness during acts of intimacy, especially sex, can dent the mood and lead to embarrassment. It's hard to be a 'great lover' when you're incredibly awkward and self-conscious.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      The act of having sexual intercourse is what I was referring to.

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      • disthing
        9 years ago

        In that case, ignore the first part of my comment.

        As I say, I think shy guys who are able to put aside their shyness 'between the sheets' can be just as good at sex as anyone else. Shy guys who carry it into the bedroom, less so; although confidence can be built over time.

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  • Kkoc
    9 years ago

    YES

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    Maybe shy guys work harder to impress

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  • braintrip
    9 years ago

    Yes.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Do shy guys ever get that far?

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  • TheArBuilder
    9 years ago

    Shy guys usually are shy at first, but when you get close they go crazy and are amazing. Not always, but sometimes they do!

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  • cluiffa
    9 years ago

    No it's fucking weird.

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