Can roommates be only make out buddies?

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I moved to a new state for my job and moved in with 2 guys I found on craigslist in January. One of them and I have become very close, both physically and mentally. One of my best friends if you will. As we learned about each other he was intrigued at my having make-out buddies. Within a month he became a make-out buddy. I watched him go through stupid girls and even settle down for few month with serious girlfriend. However we always end up back to our steeeeaaaammy make out sessions. My one insecurity of being a tall woman is being with a short man...I know dumb but I can't help it. I know he would be happy and want more. Am I wrong to only want to be a make-out buddy? Sex confuses things...I don't want to lose my friend, don't want to lose the make out buddy...Oh what to do??

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You need to upgrade to a fuck buddy.

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    • Shesasquirrel
      9 years ago

      again waiting till marriage...personal choice I made and in today's society with Sex as something that is the norm...its pretty hard to stick to your morals!!

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      • green_boogers
        9 years ago

        I'm sorry for you.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    "make-out buddies" What is this world coming to?! It's just as ridiculous as "fuck buddies". Based on what you wrote, I don't think you were mature enough to move out. You should have stayed home and waited a few more years until your maturity finally kicked in.

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    • dasugaknows
      9 years ago

      I think its even more ridiculous than "fuck buddies". And, yes, I could hardly believe this "woman" is actually living on her own.

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      • Shesasquirrel
        9 years ago

        fuck buddies come with too much baggage, drama, and diseases!!

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    • Shesasquirrel
      9 years ago

      I actually moved back to help take care of my Grandma after her stroke. When she was well I moved to a bigger city. Applied on Craigslist for roommates and found two great ones. As for make out buddies...When you are waiting to have sex till you are married...make out buddies are the next best thing. Who doesn't love to make out, spend time cuddling, talking about life, with someone you care about.

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      • Darkoil
        9 years ago

        Well I'd hurry up with that. I read the vagina can deterioate if you wait too long to have sex, I'm not sure how true that is but it might be worth looking up.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    How are you mature enough to move to a different state on your own if you can't even answer this ridiculous question?

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    • Shesasquirrel
      9 years ago

      Mature enough to cash in my 401K from a 10 year job to take care of my ailing grandma...

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Not if your this guy
    http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-to-eat-out-everyday-because-angry-housemates-live-in-the-kitchen-186596/

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    How much of a height difference is there between you two?

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    • Shesasquirrel
      9 years ago

      I am 6' tall and he is about 5'10 ish...tall than him even without heels on so with heels I am a giant!!
      I am pretty sure a mood point for the relationship world but don't want him to get to emotionally attach with me knowing that there is no way I can get past my insecurity...if that makes any sense??

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