Can men fight back if attacked by a woman???

Say for example a guy goes to the store and comes across an angry female and they start to argue. She falls off and kicks him in the nutts and proceeds to beat him up, can he fight back?

A Real Man Will Not Hit A Woman, He Must Take It - I Am Female 8
A Real Man Will Not Hit A Woman, He Must Take It - I Am Male 24
He Can Fight Back But Should Not Hurt Her - I Am Female 41
He Can Fight Back But Should Not Hurt Her - I Am Male 161
He Can Fight Her Like He Would Fight A Man - I Am Female 41
He Can Fight Her Like He Would Fight A Man - I Am Male 252
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  • For me, a man should never hit a women expect under two conditions.

    1) When my life is in danger
    2) When she physically hurts my mother. In this case, I have no problem breaking the woman's face.

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    • Lynxikat

      Good exceptions, there : )

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    • ben10

      agree

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  • equanimity

    Take away gender and you have:
    1 physically stronger person and 1 physically weaker person.

    Is it acceptable for the weaker person to assault the stronger person: No.

    Is it acceptable for the stronger person to return the attack and assault the weaker person: No.

    Is it acceptable for the stronger person to fend off the attack without assaulting the weaker person: Yes.

    Do I believe the OP has some backwards ideas about the true nature of sexism: Fuck ya, I do!

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  • Aurora93

    I think regardless of whether he hurts her or not, he is allowed to do anything in self-defense. He shouldn't try to hurt her, but if he has to to stop her hurting him then he can.
    I am female btw, in case you wanted to know.

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    • I think in our society men are not allowed to hurt women even in self defence. And this gives women a false sense of superiority and strength. Is a human really stronger than a Lion if the Lion will not bite?

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  • wigsplitz

    Yes, but as with ANY self-defense, it can't be excessive.

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  • graphic_nature

    I say a man can block and push away (not like into a wall but enough to back her off) then get out of the situation.

    I acknowledge some woman hit guys HARD and provoke getting hit, but I don't think guys should hit back at all because they have the advantage of upper body strength and could hit much harder than most women ever could. They should just take a drive or walk or kick her out of the house (which would probably result in a broken window if she's being violent, in which case I'd call the cops)

    Funny how women fought for equality but still demand special treatment like getting meals paid for and doors opened, and not getting slapped even after slapping a man several times... everyone should treat others how they would like to be treated themselves. Women and men should never allow themselves to be hurt physically.

    Female answer btw^

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    • ariannel

      I agree with you mostly but....

      What female is demanding other people pay for their meals and open their doors? Not anyone I know. I don't think that's typical. If a guy asks a girl out on a date then it's expected he pay (and if a girl asks a guy out then it's expected SHE pay). Otherwise, I don't know when the average girl would DEMAND such a thing.

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      • graphic_nature

        Well I guess it's not demanded so much as the girl thinks she's entitled to it. The moms of the guys I date will always bitch at them if they don't be chivalrous. Maybe that was a bad example, but I have met plenty of girls who think it's a total privileged for the guy to be dating them! Maybe its only west coast girls :)

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    • pokemonarceus

      It doesn't matter if someone is weaker or not, they broke the law and assaulted someone and self-defense is a necessary and lawful action. Everybody has every right to defend themselves.

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  • Shackleford96

    No man should physically hit a woman, but if she is beating the shit out of him then he should be able to defend himself. But not by hitting her back. Physical restraint or run away.

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  • Jeshua

    Its funny to see girls hit guys

    Its also funny to see a girl get duffed by the guy she was hitting,since she wasn't expecting to get hit back

    Oh and does it count if I smack her in the face with my dick lol

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  • Evilllamas

    If a women trys to atack me, since I'm quite a bit stronger than your average woman, I can probably man-handle her in to submission (put her on the floor)
    If need be; I'd throw a punch if she just wouldn't back down/ I was endangered.

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  • Quiblum

    Ha. Haha. Ha. Well. Men can't fight at all with women because they know that females are superior and completely outnumber them. C:

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  • Aleks85

    Depends on the circumstance. If she's throwing haymakers I'm just gonna toss her ass on the ground and restrain her.

    If she is just mad at me and gives me a slap or something that's not too big of a deal as far as a physical threat I most likely won't react physically.

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  • ariannel

    If a woman is seriously attacking a man (punches, kick to the nuts, eye gouging) then I think he has the right to defend himself as he would if she were a man. If she's attacking him with a her purse or shopping bag, a punch to the face would seem like overkill. But mace would be appropriate, I think. LOL

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  • BIGHAIRYMAN

    drop that hoe

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  • Darkoil

    If a woman actually attacked me then I would bitch slap the stupid cow.

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  • dom180

    I would not discriminate between men and women. I would defend myself in the same way against either, with no moral regret.

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  • CrystalButterfly

    Ahhh, the age-old question of men hitting women. I am extremely old-fashioned and I would never strike a man, but if I were to do so, I would expect to be defended against. I don't believe in beating up a person for attacking you, though.

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  • Glass

    She's the one that started it, he has every right to throw punches back.

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  • Durriken

    I'm not going to fight until she makes a true fist. If a girl can make a fist like a man and then swing it like a man then screw all else. She's going down, hard. Nowadays, that's how guys get their ass kicked, by playing the chivalry card when chicks are coming harder than they are. I've been on the recieving end of crap like that and it ain't pretty.

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  • Melodeath

    I think it would be okay to hit a woman back in self defense. As for myself, I would hit a woman hard if she continues to attack me after I've told her to stop.

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  • UnrecognizableMan

    Any person who hits someone bigger and tougher than them should have the shit beaten into them. What kind of a retard thinks it's acceptable to go from a verbal argument to physically hitting someone.

    Unfortunately as you've pointed out some people ain't too fond of guys that hit women, even if she just kicked him in the nuts. So I guess you should just break up with that person and consider taking them to court.

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    • If an Adult women comes to me like a man, she is going to get beat down like a man. PERIOD

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  • Fight back. Just because she's a women doesn't mean you have to take it.

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    • Avant-Garde

      I'm a female and I agree with you:)

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      • Awesome.

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  • Dot123

    Well I was told never to hit a women, but If she is trying to hurt me. I wouldn't stop myself from punching the bitch right in the face!

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  • Aleks85

    1. I think women who hit men are just as scummy as vice-versa.

    2. No you should not hit a woman just restrain her, unless she happens to be a body builder or something then KHTFO.

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  • seabird_71

    I think the main problem is that sometimes men will say that they were "defending" themselves after getting caught beating the ever living shit out of her. When in reality, the damage he did to her is clearly overkill. It wasn't necessary to land that many hits and punches to her body, yet the man can easily justify it and say, "She attacked me first."

    I believe in self defense. But continuing to beat her after she's already stopped? That's going over board.
    But that's with any violent dispute, regardless of gender.

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  • purpleflower

    Thats a tough one... the only thing I know for sure is if she is coming at you with a knife saying she is going to kill you... yes, it is definately okay to do whatever you have to do to NOT GET MURDERED.

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  • belbel000

    he better fight that woman! She asked for it!

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  • Saycheese

    I see all these arguements on here. How about we all just agree to disagree and avoid violence of any.

    The women should just be sent to jail for the violence she caused, the guy shouldn't fight back by any means. And sad to say truthfully I could see the guy getting blamed for the fight if he would fight(defend) back too. Why I say this, is because people these days are so sexist and stereotype too often. Since he's a man he is stronger than the woman even though she caused the fight and the guy didn't even do anything wrong.

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  • Avant-Garde

    He should have a right to self-defend himself.

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    • brick.red

      "self-defend himself"?

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      • Avant-Garde

        You how women learn self-denfese and use it to defend themselves?

        Well, couldn't a man do that too?

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        • DiscoDuck

          Males are not allowed to defend themselves against females...for one the police would still automatically arrest the male, and also nobody would try to stop a female from hurting a male. Just look at how funny it was when a female mutilated a male, would this ever happen if the other way around....hell no. Just look at all the flack Muslim nations get for their rules against women.

          http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VKgwczruOSQ&feature=related

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          • Fozmula

            man oh man. Imagine men all sitting at a table, heartedly giggling about female mutiilation. The whole goddamn country would rip down the doors, and rightly so. "Fabulous"? Really?

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          • Avant-Garde

            Yes. You're right. Our world has curious rules.
            The male species is apparently stronger than the female, so even If he's being attack by a crazy women and he defended himself, society would still consider it to be his fault.

            They say it's a man's world, but apparently that is not the case. Why can't there be equality? I don't think there should be restrictions on either sex, but most if not all restrictions are geared towards women. Rules created by threatened men. Now it seems my inner feminist is coming out....

            But, good point DiscoDuck:)

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  • MahBoi24

    I think a man should be able to fight a woman as he would fight a man. I'm female, and if I ever got in a fight with a guy, I'd like him to be able to fight me as though I was male.

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  • marron

    To turn this on its head, why should we accept women attacking men? Neither gender should be allowed to attack other humans. If a man is defended by the weight of the law, he is less likely to be put in a position where he has to defend himself

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    • equanimity

      Statistically, women are much less physically violent than men. We normally use our words and body language to get the point across.

      And I think that most grown men are the same (using words instead of physical violence to solve problems) - It just seems like a lot of young guys think that because they were told as children not to hit girls that they've somehow be oppressed by society. *rolling eyes*

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      • marron

        I see your point but I'll repeat mine because I think you missed it. I don't think we should accept women attacking men violently.

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