Can i trust a girl again?

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Hello everybody,

I am a student who has had a bad relationship 5 years ago. It was my first real relationship, and my trust was abused heavily. Since then I only found interest in some women. Most likely I am not opening myself to them and cannot really connect.

Now it starts to seem even not worth all the struggle anymore to open up to women...

my feelings won't grow easily on most women anymore and if I start to get some, my mind tells me it is not worth it and shows me all the possible problems that will occur!

what do you think?
what shall I do?

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Based on 35 votes (24 yes)
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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    All I can tell you is that my trust has been betrayed many times in the past, and I've wasted many years on relationships that were no good for me. I stumbled upon the love of my life by accident. I've never looked back, and I see those bad relationships and bad decisions simply as learning experiences and stepping stones that led me to my love now.

    Believe me, it's worth the struggle. Don't give up hope! There are billions of people in the world. You can't lose faith in all of them because of one! Chin up :)

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    • Rouxcamina
      14 years ago

      I totally agree.
      Good, solid advice.

      You're normal, no worries. (:

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  • rukii
    13 years ago

    Bored* and they* omg auto text correction..

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  • rukii
    13 years ago

    Once a girl knows you like them tgey take max advantage of you and ditch you right when they are board n nvr talk to u again thts wht I've learned

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  • rockerlocker
    13 years ago

    you've been hurt and you should move on with life if you find the right girl treat her right and she'll bloom and if you dont she'll wilt if she does wrong move on again

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  • HardcoreGuy
    13 years ago

    No, im serious now no never and dont even one day mistakely think about trusting girls because they always prick you in the end , if you had a bad relatiobship once and feel hurted, i had so many relationships including love and of course regular relationships with the opposite sex, they dont deserve the trust they obviously never never and never keep secrets they all have that chitchat thingy which they call it girltalk and expose your secrets next day you are familiar and exposed, i think its a genetic thing , im not preventing you from Dealing with girls at all im just telling you the truth and warning you from what could be dangerously harmful.

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  • lysergic.nightshade
    14 years ago

    put yourself back out there, itll be ok.

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  • Clayman88
    14 years ago

    Don't feel bad I don't trust anyone. But it don't stop me from tapping some fine ass.

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  • mikits
    14 years ago

    Women are only good for sex and having babies. You can't and shouldn't open up to them. Treat them like shit. There a lots of women that are attracted to guys that treat them like shit. So either treat them like the shit they are or start sucking cock... your choice.

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  • oquenbe
    14 years ago

    ooooo 1 more thing .............fagget

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  • oquenbe
    14 years ago

    go gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! women deal with our shit all the time maybe she was treated heavily by her past relationships aswell u need to move on or go gay more women for us wooo whooooo

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  • alexisfreak
    14 years ago

    some women are B*TCHES!!! I agree. Dude, what did this girl do? it sounds mad serious! I think you should start liking women again. You are a guy. Get over it, man.

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  • heavahh
    14 years ago

    you just need to keep looking sure opening up is hard but when you find the right one you will be able to open up and all your worries will go away

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  • tygeronherbed
    14 years ago

    you cant find what ur looking for, unless ur brave enough to keep looking....
    everyone gets knocked down, but u just have to open your heart to the possibility of a new, better, stronger love and eventually it will come. :)

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  • ihopeyoudie
    14 years ago

    women are people. and most people are shit. of course you can trust people. but if u want to be a hardass and not let them close to you you can still get some. just make money first.

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