Can guys tell whether a girl is a virgin or not?

I know majority of guys like to ask the very rude and personal question on whether a girl is a virgin. Im one my self and wondering if there are obvious signs that gives guys the idea I am one. I am called innocent a lot and people pick up on that easily....can this be an indication?

No, guys just like to be nosey 16
No but guys like to know to satisfy their ego if they're the first 33
Majority of girls get asked this so its not because we already know 9
Yes it can be easy to tell depending on how she acts 17
Other 8
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  • thegypsysailor

    Any guy who asks that of a girl, is just a classless slime ball and should be avoided at all costs. It really isn't something someone with any civility asks.
    If the girl chooses to bring up the subject, that is her prerogative, otherwise it is none of a guy's business.

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    • flyіngnostalgіa

      yet you are always saying how non-virgin women are better.

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      • thegypsysailor

        What has one got to do with the other? Why don't you go fly into a wall?

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        • flyіngnostalgіa

          Again thank you for all this attention. I LOVE IT! Keep it up. My ego is just bursting with happiness that I consume so much of your time and thoughts. Little old me getting so much attention. Whoda thunk? Thank you, Oh Thank you, Thank you.

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        • TheDentist

          Because this isn't 2001. Flying into walls isn't cool anymore.

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          • thegypsysailor

            I did knot know that.

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            • TheDentist

              It's spelt "not"

              I can't believe the ignorance of some users on this website. If you neither have the time or inclination to use your spellchecker or dictionary, why should I bother reading your ignorant and foolish post.

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  • DaddysBlondeGirl

    What is bad about NOT being a virgin????????????

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    • kirakirakira

      M8 close those legs all i can hear from you is a wind tunnel.

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      • DaddysBlondeGirl

        Are you living in a jungle or what?

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    • Sample-Stick

      Meaning that you are no more a virgin?

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      • DaddysBlondeGirl

        Im not sure about the average age of people on this page but - since when is it bad that adult people are living healthy sexual life?

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        • Sample-Stick

          Don't be offended dear. Just asking

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          • DaddysBlondeGirl

            I'm not.

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            • Sample-Stick

              Happy to hear that dear

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  • Crow

    I don't why some guys ask this. I know the whole "oh yeah I was just checking to make sure you're clean" but some STDs can be conceived just from sharing needles, razors and toothpicks. It's probably just to stroke their own egos.

    Being called innocent is just a comment most of the time. I was called innocent when I was in high school because I don't tend to drink (I have low tolerance).

    A lot of guys can pick up on inexperience but not necessarily virginity, though. Hesitation before touching, awkward kissing and a lot of nervousness generally indicate that.

    I should also add that bleeding during initial penetration doesn't occur for all virgin girls either. Oh and not all bleeding is from hymenal tissue, it can be from vaginal tissue as well.

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  • KingTermite

    A majority of guys do this? It hardly seems possible that you could have come to that conclusion from personal experience, considering the population of the planet. I find your assumption to be offensive due to it's sexist nature.

    I also feel that your question is poorly worded. I can tell if they scream when penetrated and then there's blood on the bed. Or maybe they just like screaming and they are having their menstrual purge. Or maybe they are just faking being virgins.

    I have to wonder how old these guys are, because it doesn't sound like the fast track to getting laid. But I often boggle that any of the guys under 25 that I meet can actually get laid. Most of them are about as smooth as sand paper and smell like the hind end of pachyderm.

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  • Short4Words

    Why does it matter?

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    • It matters to me as I don't wish to get used and abused. In other words "wam bam, thank you ma'am"

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      • Anonymous-Poll-Creator

        Men are not responsible for your personal decisions that you regret. If you agree to have sex with a man, and afterward he decides he is no longer interested in you, he did not "use and abuse" you. Just because you had sex with him doesn't mean he owes you a thing, just like you don't owe him anything just because he had sex with you.

        If you choose to have sex with someone, regardless of their interests or motives, that is your choice and no one is responsible for it but you. So rather than play the victim, how about you take some personal responsibility for your own actions?

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        • TheWrinklySailor

          This is a beautiful comment.

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          • Thanks

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            • TheWrinklySailor

              Umm...ok...well...I was talking to the other...well ok...

              *sigh*

              You're welcome, sweetheart

              : )

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      • FJK_frm_AK25

        It's only obvious if u make it like that. Ppl noticing ur innocent is a lil different n guys try to take advantage of "innocent" girls so b very careful n don't rush into anything or let sum asshole pressure u into something ur uncomfortable with.

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      • Short4Words

        Funny. I've never seen virginity as a sign of vulnerability.

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      • JimPreston

        What's the matter with that ????? So what if you are a FFFF...Find them, Feel them, Fuck them, Forget them !!!!!! Guys like well used women. How else are you going to become a "Good Fuck" !

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        • DaddysBlondeGirl

          :)))))) I like you

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        • ews4

          Is your wife a good fuck?

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    • Ellenna

      You beat me to it!

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  • Ellenna

    There are a number of definitions of virginity in women, but interestingly not for men, now I wonder why that would be?

    The usual definition is a woman who hasn't had sex, but then you need to define sex: is she still a virgin if she's masturbated or been fingered by someone else or received oral sex? Or is it only the magic male penis penetrating her vagina that turns her into an ex-virgin?

    What about if she's had sex but not to the extent of rupturing her hymen? That's assumubg she has one or even noticed when it was ruptured.

    An older version is that a virgin is a woman who is "entire unto herself" - ie and independent single woman not owned by a male.

    Take your pick, but why the fuck does it matter?

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    • LittleGirlAtrociouslySodomized

      A woman is no longer a virgin after her hymen has been broken.

      Anymore stupid questions?

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      • Anonymous-Poll-Creator

        Just to be clear, in your view, a lesbian who has been with women but never penetrated is a virgin, and a 12 year old girl who ruptured her hyman in a bicycle accident is not a virgin?

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        • Sample-Stick

          You have a point there

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        • LittleGirlAtrociouslySodomized

          Did I Stutter?

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      • mypenisinyourmouth

        "Anymore stupid questions?"

        So much more. So much. Trust me.

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        • LittleGirlAtrociouslySodomized

          I ask questions if I have them but I only speak for myself...

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    • It fucken matters as
      1) Majority of guys asking this question are just wanting to fuck you (hence being the first and breaking your hymen
      2) The maturity level is some what decreased in those that ask such a question as it is often asked by those 17 and under.
      This is giving me a good idea of where the current guy that I'm seeing , intentions are at.

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      • Ellenna

        OK, sorry if I didn't realise this was a personal issue for you rather than an abstract one.

        Have you tried asking the same question back and seeing what the response is? If it's "That's different bc I'm a man" then you know what you're dealing with: someone with his head stuck partly up his own arse but mostly back in a 1950's double standard OR modern religious fundamentalism of some variety.

        I hope that helps

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  • Mag

    The hymen is not supposed to tear during sex. That's a myth. If it does, then there is not enough lubrication. Either the person is not aroused enough for the vagina to produce enough lubrication, or there is some other reason, maybe a medical one.

    If they're really tight, then you're a bad lay lol. That's why it seems like they loosen the more you have sex with them. You're getting better at pleasing them/they're getting better at knowing what they like.

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  • sexysonofsam

    The vast majority of boys have never seen a hymen in their lives and would not even know where it is situated in the vagina. So in answer to your question, No boys would not know if you are a virgin or not!

    Not even if they have sex with you would they be able to tell whether you were or were not a virgin. All you have to do is make is as if you have never seen a penis before and do not know what to do with it and make a bit of noise when they do get it in and they will be convinced you are a "virgin"

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  • CreativeThinker

    For a an ordinary idiot there is no way to tell just by looks that if a girl is virgin or not, However some playboy type dudes (who came across with many sluts) can read body language of sluts pretty well and usually their guess is right (again these guesses are based upon body language of a girl)

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  • Charli.m's_Messy_Period

    You, Ms. OP, sound like a very suspicious person. And, your suspicions can sabotage a healthy sexual attitude. Stop worrying about your hymen, and start working on your brain. The brain is definitely a sexual organ.

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    • How on earth is the brain a sexual organ?

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      • Charli.m's_Messy_Period

        It's the organ that causes the difference between sexually happy women, and frustrated sexually repressed women.

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  • theseeker

    To answer the question, I don't think you can tell for sure if a girl is a virgin. "Innocent" might be an indication towards not having much experience in that area, but not necessarily a virgin. If a girl is extremely introverted and shy, I would assume she hasn't been around much. However, I believe if a girl is very aggressive and open you can tell she has been around a lot by the way she acts.

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