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I am in a relationship. we've been dating for a little over a month. I'm just confused why he likes me, obviously I'm self concious. I'm not obese or anything I'm curvy and my bf is pretty skinny. How can he still get turned on by me when I don't have that great of a body? Is it normal that he really does not seem to care about my looks and just my personality?
Did you ever think that maybe he likes your body? Curves means boobs and a butt. Most guys like that. I'm not a guy. But you don't have to be a "10" for a guy to be attracted to you.
Opposites attract. Why are you into him? Maybe he thinks the same things as you do? (why doesn't she want to be with a bigger buff guy?)
Quite honestly there are REAL men out there. Real men are mature and looking for a partner that will last, not give them want they want until the buzz dies down. Maybe he thinks your curvy body is sexy. You have a womans figure, not the figure of a 12 year old boy(which I don't understand why any guy would want that.). I would feel very lucky to have a man like yours. Don't be weary of this relationship! Let it last a lifetime! You are a beautiful person and you deserve this! Be confident!
All it takes for a guy to get turned on is for the woman to show up. That's it, so you have nothing to worry about.
There is also the fact he could be desperate and just wants sex. You just happen to be readily available
Personality matters most, but there's a point where someone is too ugly.
Yes guys can look past looks.
However it's more likely that he just likes what you look like anyway. I know I tend to prefer my girls with a little extra meat on them. ;)
Yeah, I'm a guy that's prob gonna end up going out with this girl that's cute but not gorgeous just because I like that I make her feel comfortable and open. So yeah. It even surprised me.