Can extreme introvert date extrovert?

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We've been together three years and we started living together about year ago.
I'm an extrovert and I love to go out, travel, do stuff... And he's extreme introvert and lazy. It use to be okay because we have been together only once a week so he found some energy to go out with me but not it got worse.
He said it's never gonna work and it's either me unhappy or him. But I love him and I feel like this is important thing but also that people usually break up because they stop loving each other.

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Based on 6 votes (1 yes)
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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    He is just using the fact that he is an ‘extreme introvert’ as an excuse to be lazy and never do anything. You should find someone else.

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Of course it could work if the introvert is comfortable with the extrovert taking the lead in a lot of things as they obviously tend to have a more dominant personality.

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  • pizzabean
    3 years ago

    no. been there done that. opposites attract but it will be no fun

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  • Kool_owl
    3 years ago

    If you are a social butterfly and he's not I don't see how this is going to work out .
    He's going to hold you back and make you feel guilty going out without him .
    Dose he mind if you go and do stuff without him or dose he expect you to stay home and not social ?

    Be very careful you do not lose who you are because of him .

    My 2 cents is leave him if he's lazy and you're outgoing you two are just going to be miserable together .

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    It can definitely work. My wifes dad is an extreme introvert and his wife is an extreme extrovert. They work out well, she just accepts that he's not gonna go everywhere with her.

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  • soleyman_the_magnificent
    3 years ago

    The two of you just need to have a heart-to-heart sit down and figure out if this is a deal-breaker for either of you. People can change, but usually only outbid their own choice. If you try to force people to change, it usually results in resentment.

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  • PleaseTalkToMe
    3 years ago

    Nope

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    Matching is important with your partner. I'm a morning person hes not. I like a clean house but am admittedly lazy. Hes like a clean freak. He holds onto alot wear as I just shrug if off. See these differences can work. Yours cannot

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  • Bassmachine
    3 years ago

    It usually doesn't work out.

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