Can a guy be straight and like trans women?

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For those of you who don't know, transgender women are women who were born men. Many do look, act, and sound just like women, and truly are that gender identity. They were born with male reproductive organs instead of female.

So my question is can a guy like trans women and at the same time truly be straight? Or is it bisexual?

He's only straight if she's post-op (no more penis). 74
He's bisexual for sure. 88
Whether she has a penis or not, he's still straight. 412
He's not straight or bi, he's just messed up in the head. 27
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  • KhalJohn
    9 years ago

    I think these men are bi and on the down-low (maybe even open about it). I love the female anatomy through and through. I don't want to get graphic (I wrote a long paragraph about it), but I love the beautiful overall experience of it. I don't do anal. There are a lot of black women that are not emotionally connected to black men; lack of femininity. A trans-woman may be more feminine, but still I would rather have a pheno-typical woman. I think that part of it is like Barry White sang, "Your sweetness is my weakness." I am obsessed with it and I have that right. Lauryn Hill says, "That thing, that thing, that thing." There are plenty of black women with "that thing." My advice is to find women of other races and in other countries. Many of them value their men. I support LGBT rights. Men claiming to be straight should come out or there should be a category somewhere between straight and bi. Straight man attracted to trans women (SMATTW).

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  • Stern_rules
    12 years ago

    I hear that post OP trans women's vag's are really dry... KY ftw

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  • FourAMandstillgoin
    12 years ago

    That person feels they are a woman and want to be seen that way. Not as a dude who hacked his dick off, im sure they just want to be accepted.

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  • Ashlie
    12 years ago

    A lot of straight and bi men like transwomen. So do a lot of gay and bi women. It fully depends on the individual. Some men will see a transwoman for who she truly is, a woman, and will be attracted to her in a hetero fashion.

    Some men will see her as a feminine male and feel an attraction to her in a gay way. You can't say all men who date TS people are a finite orientation, because an assumption so grand is just absurd.

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    • AngryDude
      12 years ago

      What about if a straight guy like a no-op trans woman and likes to perform fellatio on her and/or receive anal sex from her? Can he still be straight? I don't see why not. I am straight and I like trans women and I want to do that stuff with them if it's what they like but I am the man and she is the woman and I'm attracted to her like she is a woman and her penis is a feminine body part to me.

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      • Ashlie
        12 years ago

        I don't see why not either. You're a man, she's a woman, there you go. A ton of straight guys like their women to do them with a strap on. If she doesn't need one you're just saving money and time.

        You are the only one that can know your sexuality. If you say you're straight it's just stupid for anyone to disagree. They can't read your mind.

        But still, it's quite pointless to worry about such things. Why should it matter if you're straight, gay, bi, pansexual, demisexual, asexual or whateversexual? You're a human all the same. Just say "Fuck it" and do what feels natural. That's how I learned to cope with my very complicated fluctuating sexuality. I'm just sexual. Fuck it. I like it.

        Your biggest problems will probably arise while finding a transwoman who will enjoy using her incorrect anatomy. Most of us can't stand the thought of using that thing >.<

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        • AngryDude
          12 years ago

          That's an awesome word you made it. "Hey, I'm whateversexual."

          Yeah I'm just curious about it what it feels like to get done by a woman and her enjoying it and I know I can find a trans woman like that as a prostitute at least. I thought about going to Thailand to do that to be honest. Even though here in the states I already know one but I don't like her that much. So I haven't done it yet.

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  • Tayariii
    7 years ago

    I think ones sexuality is determined more by how we see someone rather than what they are. This is a simple opinion and I could be wrong. I also think transwomen are real woman, but I admit it's complicated. Some see sexuality as fluid and complex, on a spectrum, I mostly agree with this.

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  • Ceejay1960
    8 years ago

    I am a straight guy. I am attracted,to females. I have no attraction to men. I am in no state of denial about being gay or bi-sexual. The m ale for does not attract me. That being said, I have had sexual relations with pre-op transgendered ladies, and although I am married now. I still fantasize about ts girls. In case no one has noticed, s one of these girls are absolutely gorgeous.

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  • idkwtd
    9 years ago

    I'm a young straight girl. I have this same doubt, I'm going out with a great guy who identifies as straight but likes to date girls as well as trans women pre op. He's been hones about it, and we have great chemistry and lots of things in common (other then the obvious). I'm open to the wired sex, strap ons and sex toys even I if don't have much experience with those. I was very open minded when we first talked about it and did not give it much thought. I'm starting to like him ALOT and now I'm scared to get feelings for him, because maybe what I can give him isn't enough. Should I even bother? Should I try and fond a "normal" guy? I don't know how to talk about it.

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    • AngryDude
      9 years ago

      He is obviously very much into you, and likes you a lot. You shouldn't be scared of developing feelings for him because of inadequacy. Everyone's got their fetishes and sometimes it's better to remain as that. And, from what I once heard a psychologist say on a talk show, while you're in a relationship, even if you're bisexual, you are the orientation at the time applicable to that relationship. So, if he does happen to be bi, but he's with you (a girl), then during your relationship, he is straight. In a sense, anyway. And, like I said, some people have fetishes that they don't necessarily want to indulge in. Just because he might like trans women doesn't mean he wishes you were one. Go ahead and continue being with this guy and develop feelings for him if you like. Don't let this hold you back, in other words.

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  • TomLikesPizza
    11 years ago

    Trans women ARE women. Nothing more, nothing less. Physiology doesn't really go into it. If you are attracted to women, I assume you are attracted to more than just their bodies (although of course it plays a part), but also their femininity, their female personality etc. Similarly, if a cis (non-trans) man entered a relationship with a trans man, it would be a gay relationship.

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  • tentacleTherapist
    12 years ago

    Well that's where there's conflict. Many (not all, just many) straight men are close-minded, and wouldn't accept that.

    But it depends on one's own way of thinking.

    I support transies 100%, but no offense, I hate females, and if I found out a man I'm in love with used to be a female, I'd be depressed. If I love shim enough, who knows, maybe I'd let that go. I believe, it's personal idea.

    ALSO.

    If you're getting into a relationship, if one of them IS a transgender, you really, REALLY should let your lover know...unless you really long to start over new, that's sad but nice, just do whatever you feel :,)

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