Can’t cum while fucking
Is it normal that i cant cum just fucking? I need to rub my clit and its so frustrating
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Is it normal that i cant cum just fucking? I need to rub my clit and its so frustrating
Normal. Few women can get off with just penetration and need clit stimulation from her partner or herself. I usually go down on my partner first and get her off that makes her really wet. It makes for a great fuck and we're both satisfied.
You're completely normal.
Surveys have found that around only 20% of women are able to consistently reach orgasm by penis in vagina thrusting alone.
As you're clearly well aware, the clitoris is (usually) what needs to be stimulated for a woman to reach an orgasm. For a minority of women, the clitoris is near enough to the entrance to the vagina to get sufficient stimulation from a penis moving in the vagina, but this just doesn't work for the vast majority of women.
There's also the time factor: women can take up to twenty minutes to reach orgasm, while guys - particularly young guys - hardly ever last anywhere near that long.
So what you're experiencing is normal, but I have to wonder why the hell you're the one dong the rubbing. A guy with a decent, respectful, caring attitude and a reasonable understanding of women's physiology and sex should be doing this for you. In fact, a good man would make sure you got off before he entered you. If this happens, you might find that your elevated state of arousal post-orgasm could mean that the stimulation of PIV sex is enough to let you come again.