Called me 15 times

My boyfriend called me 15 times in a row, and does this now and again until I answer. Is this normal?

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19% Normal
Based on 237 votes (44 yes)
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Comments ( 28 )
  • missme42

    Normal:
    1. It's 2 am and you aren't home
    2. You had a date and you forgot to show up (maybe a little excessive, but my moms done it to my dad)
    3. There is some kind of emergency that CANNOT wait, by any set of standards.

    If he's not angry when you do reach him, if it's not one of the above circumstances, then he might have an anxiety problem that has other ways to treat. If it's not that, get out now.

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  • A_Different_Path

    Do u only give him a sex on the 100th call.

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    • catcat27

      lmao

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  • Ok so you said he called you 15 times while you were napping. Call him back and ask him what's so important. If he had an emergency or worried tell him your fine and to not do it again. Just talk to each other, communication is what makes relationships work.

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  • khosmo2

    That's not normal. A few calls, then a frantic message saying 'call me right away, I'm very worried about you'. Should be the limit you set. Set firm boundaries and tell him the consequences if he breaks them is my advice.
    Has he seen you not answer someones call intentionally before? Maybe he saw that and thinks you are doing it to him, thinking you are ignoring him?
    If not that, major issues...

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  • lisalyn

    No it's not. Get a new boyfriend

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  • Gidget

    lol i had an ex do this for like a month after we broke up while i was with my current boyfriend cops had to be called eventually its bad and will get worse my ex started out the same way

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  • vaprick53

    If the guys an novice at dating, then he just needs some seasoning. If he's had girlfriends before he's being an annoying, possessive, dumb ass who doesn't deserve a girl.

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  • U should dump him before it's too late and. He rapes u because he is obsessed with u then most likely he will probably kill you so end it before it's too late

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  • catcat27

    again, I turned my phone off to take a nap. when i woke up 45 min later i saw the 15 calls

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  • Hunter0820

    First, why not just pick up?

    Second, I think this guy is EXTREMELY insecure.

    Third, if you like him, deal with it.

    Fourth, talk to him about it and get him to stop.

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  • lewlew80

    Eww, what a turn off

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  • Reina

    Just answer and tell him 'I'm sorry sweetheart, I have to do (whatever it is) your call needs to have an undivided attention, I will call you at (say when and do it). He should't really call 15 times after. If he does, then its weird.

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  • catcat27

    I turned my phone off for 1 hour to take a nap...

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  • My ex did that. Especially when he knew I was taking a nap. It's very aggrivating and if I were you I would tell him to knock it off if it's bothering you.

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  • Tell him to stop. If you don't answer its because you are not there or available. If he doesn't stop leave.

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  • Cosmicgiggle

    Why don't you answer? He still needs to stop calling that many times. It should be obvious to him that you're either gone or don't wish to talk on the phone.

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  • kamilion

    not really. sounds controlling and irrational.

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  • kellstar

    Not normal. He sounds obssessed and controlling! If u don't want to answer your phone u don't have to. Run while u still can!

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  • yeoldefletcher

    You put he does this til you answer the phone. He obviously wouldn't do it if you answered the phone! Why don't you answer the phone when he rings?

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    • Lockets

      That's what I was going to say!

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  • gowila

    I called my best friend like thirty times today because I needed to talk. It turns out he was having sex. Ha ha

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  • soccer2

    My bf only does this wen he is worried like wen I drive late at night and forget to call and tell him I'm ok

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  • LovelyDayEh

    It's normal if it's a very important issue. But if it's like this all the time than sorry to say hun it's definitely not normal.

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  • SwimBikeRun

    Run while you still can. That's not normal.

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    • catcat27

      so I thought, but he claims he cares about me so much and is afraid something happened to me...my parents do not even do that to me.

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  • marley56

    Obsessive much? Maybe he really has to talk to u..

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  • more2c711

    I've been with mine for 3 years and he still does this!!! Recently I have threatened with calling the cops for harassment, because it is domestic violence. I've tried to break up with him but he won't leave me alone! So not normal!

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