Called me 15 times
My boyfriend called me 15 times in a row, and does this now and again until I answer. Is this normal?
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My boyfriend called me 15 times in a row, and does this now and again until I answer. Is this normal?
Normal:
1. It's 2 am and you aren't home
2. You had a date and you forgot to show up (maybe a little excessive, but my moms done it to my dad)
3. There is some kind of emergency that CANNOT wait, by any set of standards.
If he's not angry when you do reach him, if it's not one of the above circumstances, then he might have an anxiety problem that has other ways to treat. If it's not that, get out now.
Ok so you said he called you 15 times while you were napping. Call him back and ask him what's so important. If he had an emergency or worried tell him your fine and to not do it again. Just talk to each other, communication is what makes relationships work.
That's not normal. A few calls, then a frantic message saying 'call me right away, I'm very worried about you'. Should be the limit you set. Set firm boundaries and tell him the consequences if he breaks them is my advice.
Has he seen you not answer someones call intentionally before? Maybe he saw that and thinks you are doing it to him, thinking you are ignoring him?
If not that, major issues...
lol i had an ex do this for like a month after we broke up while i was with my current boyfriend cops had to be called eventually its bad and will get worse my ex started out the same way
If the guys an novice at dating, then he just needs some seasoning. If he's had girlfriends before he's being an annoying, possessive, dumb ass who doesn't deserve a girl.
U should dump him before it's too late and. He rapes u because he is obsessed with u then most likely he will probably kill you so end it before it's too late
again, I turned my phone off to take a nap. when i woke up 45 min later i saw the 15 calls
First, why not just pick up?
Second, I think this guy is EXTREMELY insecure.
Third, if you like him, deal with it.
Fourth, talk to him about it and get him to stop.
Just answer and tell him 'I'm sorry sweetheart, I have to do (whatever it is) your call needs to have an undivided attention, I will call you at (say when and do it). He should't really call 15 times after. If he does, then its weird.
My ex did that. Especially when he knew I was taking a nap. It's very aggrivating and if I were you I would tell him to knock it off if it's bothering you.
Tell him to stop. If you don't answer its because you are not there or available. If he doesn't stop leave.
Why don't you answer? He still needs to stop calling that many times. It should be obvious to him that you're either gone or don't wish to talk on the phone.
Not normal. He sounds obssessed and controlling! If u don't want to answer your phone u don't have to. Run while u still can!
You put he does this til you answer the phone. He obviously wouldn't do it if you answered the phone! Why don't you answer the phone when he rings?
I called my best friend like thirty times today because I needed to talk. It turns out he was having sex. Ha ha
My bf only does this wen he is worried like wen I drive late at night and forget to call and tell him I'm ok
It's normal if it's a very important issue. But if it's like this all the time than sorry to say hun it's definitely not normal.
I've been with mine for 3 years and he still does this!!! Recently I have threatened with calling the cops for harassment, because it is domestic violence. I've tried to break up with him but he won't leave me alone! So not normal!