Breaking up

Is it normal that i still have feelings for a guy that broke up with me after a seven year relationship with? we broke up in 2009 on our anniversary and i was a harsh ending. IIN?

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90% Normal
Based on 80 votes (72 yes)
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  • HurrrDurrr

    When you truly love some one, you can never stop. The only thing you I can say is this: If nothing else take what has happened as a lesson. In victory you learn very little. Life's greatest lessons are learned in moments of defeat, of tragedy, every heart break offers an opportunity to learn and become wiser. If we can find the courage and strength to move forward we gain something of value. To ignore these lessons is to devalue their source and makes the tragedy they arose from to be in vain. I hope you find the right path for yourself and that you don't let this heart break pass without learning something that will help you in your future.

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  • ~L~

    No, it's not normal. You must be some kind of alien monster.

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  • vintagebeauty224

    im sorry to hear that, and it must be very hard on you right now but in order to move on to your future you must get over the past. people always say it will heal over time well, time has past and they have just proved themselves wrong. i dont know weather your religious or not but i belive that God puts us through things for a reason. he is tring to show you somthing about life. maybe he has somthing bigger in mind for you than a 7 year relationship. try prayer, try Jesus because what do you have to lose when you have lost everything? nothing. just give Jesus a try. i know this will help because ive been here before. but its up to you to take this advice. good luck and God Bless.

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