Boyfriends younger sister hates me for my looks?

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That's right, she hates me for my looks.

PLEASE BEFORE YOU GO CRAZY SAYING IM CONCEITED, READ MORE...

I'm 24, she's 21.
Sooo I didn't think it was that at first. I thought she hated me because I was the new girl or whatever, but now the truth came out. I always noticed how she STARED ME DOWN and looked at what I was wearing, etc.

See, I live in NYC and I love fashion ahd my boyfriend is in NYC with my but his family is from Texas.

My boyfriend is 26 and moved to NYC when he was 21, so he's been here a bit to know it , etc.

I met his sister last year for the first time but before that we used to chat on aim every week. She liked me on aim and when I met her, she was kinda rude. She didnt say anything to do and whenever I asked her a question, her reply was yes, no, okay, yes. Almost like she was afraid of me. I asked my bf what was up and he didnt know.

Okay, so to make a long story short, her best friend who is SUPER SHY sent me an email about me. This is exactly it:

"I'm so tired of this. I hurt myself last night because I never feel I'm good enough. My fucking brother's girlfriend is so annoying and I hate her. I still talk to her on aim a lot, but I just can't take her anymore. I feel like she is judging me and that she thinks shes hotter than me and truth is, she is. I have fucking acne all over my face and at 82 pounds, I'm a freaking walking skeleton. My boyfriend doesn't know how obsessed I am about looking pretty and it just hurts me. I honestly hate my brother's girlfriend because she thinks she's hot shit and she seems conceited because she's always overly confident about her looks and this pisses me off. She thinks she owns the world or something and it hurts me. Then my older brother and his wife. She's like 300 pounds, but her face is perfect. She has no acne, flawless skin like the other one and they both have really pretty hair while mine is just nasty and rough and gross. It really annoys me and they treat me like I'm ugly and I know they think I'm ugly. I dont know what to do anymore, I'm so depressed about my looks. Every time they get near me, I want to scream. I hate looking at their faces. I hate seeing their chest being bigger than mine and guys looking at them better than me."

That's it.

Is it normal for her to hate me?

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  • jsyk
    14 years ago

    unfortunately in this society there is a standard for beauty, that most of us dont fall into and you seam to and that bothers her, and it dosnt really sound like she hates you, just that she's really envious and hates her self, try telling her that she's beautiful and that you wished you looked like her. being ugly is hard, i know, just try to cut her some slack and boost her confidence and you will get along well eventually

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    • happycamper
      12 years ago

      nobody i mean nobody wants to spend there energy in shuch a negative person. it made me very nautous . seek help before you hurt some one.

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  • Pee-Drinker
    13 years ago

    Sound's like she hates herself not you.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    yes.. its really hard for me to right this / admit this and i hope i dont get hated for it.. but i feel this to a degree to all sexy women. no offense to you hotties, i know alot of you are nice, it's us ladies with low self esteem who have the problem not you . but honestly, feeling shitty about yourself all the time and lacking confidence, especially with so much media (ads,magazines, commercials) EVERYWHERE emphasizing the important and worht of a woman in accordance to her attractiveness , is just.. well difficult.. and not a good time.

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    How dare u post that private Email she wrote on here!!! Why are u even upset she doesn't hate u she hates herself and instead of helping her your crying about it on here your a bitch and u sound retarded

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  • Carasaysherro
    12 years ago

    This happened to me like three months ago. Take her shopping and compliment her. But be subtle. Like, "Oh you would look amazing in this." or "Ooh, your eyes look so pretty right now." compliment her on her body, and just make her feel good. :)

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  • expedition_holland
    14 years ago

    she's just a really jelous person, live with it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Why should she like you? You babble away like an annoying git making a short story long. And she is deeply troubled - but you're no friend, and instead manage to turn it into YOURSELF?

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