Boyfriends bond with his best friend

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My boyfriend is openly bi, he used to date his best friend, and they're still really close. I live on the other side of the country from him and can't afford to visit frequently, but his friend lives right near him and they hang out all the time. Now, he says that their just friends but they hang out almost 24/7, sometimes even sleep in the same bed, they even have a song! is this normal? I don't think it is, so i'm posting from his account to try and get some feedback for him to see.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    it'd be normal if they were still friends after breaking up, but it sounds like they're still in love, and that's not normal because he's dating you now. if this doesn't end, maybe you should break up.

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  • Inspector019
    13 years ago

    Duh. Not normal.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    No! Would he have a problem with you acting this way with your ex? If he wouldn't mind then he cares nothing for you.

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  • I_am_not_normal
    13 years ago

    There's not really any way to tell, you'll just have to choose to trust him or not

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    This strikes me as being not normal. When I read your post many suspicions are raised. It would be one thing if they were just platonic friends, but it doesn't sound to be that way. He's supposed to be with you yet it sounds like he is wife his friend. They are after all "sleeping together" and "they have their own song". Bring up your concerns with him but if he refuses to stop this behaviour or answers you in a almost defensive way, it might be a good idea to consider breaking up with him.

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  • Uzzie101
    13 years ago

    It's not normal that they're still friends in the first place...let alone they sleep in the same bed!
    I wouldn't stick it.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    yeah... not normal at all.

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  • Dagan
    13 years ago

    He's queer. The question is 'is it normal for you to accept that your boyfriend is bi'. You have already lost this critter to the world. Run!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    thats not normal. try talk to him about what u think he shouldnt do. by not controlling him. its just inappropriate and u dislike it.

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